Can I Last longer?...

Hi guys. I’ve been lurking for a while (I stopped on PE for a few months because I’m going to college and looking for an apartment), but anyway…my question is What Legal drug out there is there that can help me last longer in bed. I’m not exactly a pre-ejaculator, but I do cum pretty fast<like within 2 minutes>. Needless to say, it sucks and makes me feel inadeuqate. I always hear about Viagra and Cialis on this site for recreational use but never understood what its effect are. Do they only make you harder, or do they help in the ejaculation department?

Any help would be appreciated because I’m real serious about taking something that will help me and I know the advice on this site is great.

Thanks.

Viagra is the only ED drug I’ve experimented with, that I can say delayed my orgasm slightly. More effectively though, if you’re willing to obtain viagra or cialis, you should try getting an SSRI; a doctor can write you out a prescription for one. Prozac, Paxil and Zoloft are all effective for making you a marathon man in the bedroom; and the best part about them, only a very low dose of them is required, less than for even therapeutic use. An OTC alternative for this would be 5-HTP; but as far as dosing and timing goes for this particular drug, I am not sure of. Hope this helps some.

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Thanks for the information dasydrag. So it sounds to me Viagra/Cialis isn’t the greatest orgasm delayer. O am actually on Zoloft and it did make me a marathin man in bed for a couple months; however, that seems to have stopped all of a sudden (Even when I don’t take it for a few days and start again, no avail.)

I was doing an internet search for a drug that will help and basically found nothing.

Well there is no drug for that. Viagra or Cialis from other’s experiences, maybe can help a little bit as a secondary effect. What I’ve heard that really helps for that is pot; but pot is illegal unless prescribed by a doc in some states. The other option, start edging and watching porn. Porn will desensitize you and edging will train your system to get used and control the point of no return. Also start doing kegels to create that On/Off switch.

Wellbutrin delays ejaculation for some. You can pick it up on line without a prescription.

Also worth researching a bit on, “histamines premature ejaculation”

Drugs are the shortcut man, you really have to workout your BC muscle and make it strong so you have “total control of your dick.” Edging is going to do just that for you.

Viagra, Cialis, alcohol, and weed have all helped for me. If I’m coming a little quick, I’ll take some Cialis and that will usually help. Edging is the way to go for a long term solution though.

When you edge, try to stay away from not only ejaculation, but getting close to orgasm (at least until the end). If you train yourself to get close to ejaculation quickly, and then just hover around there for 20 minutes, that’s not going to do a whole lot. That’s because you wont be able to control yourself as well when you’re having sex compared to masturbation.

Then it’s still a little harder when you’re with a woman. I’ve recently picked up a fleshlight and it feels very realistic. I just got it so I can’t really make any calls yet, but it seems like it would help with edging.

Whenever I work out my BC muscle, my glans gets hypersensitive, then whenever I touch my glans I’ll get involuntary BC contractions leading to premature ejaculation. This isn’t very common, but there are definitely others out there who experience the same thing that I do.

I’ll make you a deal, I’ll give you half the time that I last if you promise not to give it back…:)

But on a serious note, edging is what you want. Just masturbate to get yourself as close to ejaculating as you can, but don’t do it (you can when you’re finished though). Keep it under control and do this for a long time. It’ll help you learn to control yourself more in bed as well.

Hope this helps, I would never turn to drugs myself. I could never rely on some medication to help me with sex. Edging is a long-term solution, and you don’t have to worry about taking a pill, because it’s all you.

Scream

RandomGiant,

I think you’re on to something when you say:

“When you edge, try to stay away from not only ejaculation, but getting close to orgasm (at least until the end). If you train yourself to get close to ejaculation quickly, and then just hover around there for 20 minutes, that’s not going to do a whole lot. That’s because you wont be able to control yourself as well when you’re having sex compared to masturbation.”

While I don’t consider myself a premature ejaculator, I do often wish that I had better ejaculatory control during sex. I have tried edging for quite some time, and while it has made me more conscious of my “point of no return” and helped me recognize when to slow down or stop stimulation in order to avoid ejaculating, it has not done much for me to help prolong reaching the point of no return.

I will definitely try your approach to edging and hopefully I will have better success. Thank you for your input!

I’ll try edging for a while…definetely sounds like that’s the best option.

When I first started taking my zoloft, I could <no lie> last 2 hours at constant thrust, it was great and needless to say my GF LOVED it…she would say she had 2 or 3 orgasms. Now I last 2 minutes and I feel so inadequate when I’m done because I know she didnt even have one orgasm.

I’ve been reading alot on eating her out well but can’t seem to be able to use a great technique when in the heat of the moment.

Sometimes it sounds like she’s lovin’ it but the moaning never lasts and it feels like she gets bored of it.

Good luck!

What is your technique kc?

Nothing special. I’ll start masturbating until, you know, I’m at the edge, then stop for a minute. Hopefully everytime I do it I can last longer the second and third and fourth times around. Like after I get to the edge, I wanna be able to go for a second sprint longer.

I have a lot of time to practice also because I generally work alone for most of my shift.

I started taking Effexor a little over a month ago, and I seem to be one of the 34% that experience sexual side effects from it. Thankfully, it didn’t make me impotent, which I’ve been told can happen. It did, however make it take quite a bit longer for me to reach climax… I’d say, on average, 20-30 minutes longer, and that’s with me actually trying to get get off quick.

Dick Control: A Primer

i take .5mg of paxil and it helps me last as long as i want