Advice please, kegel muscles involuntarily locking up is preventing ejaculation.

Hey first off I would like to wish everyone a good day.

Basically been PE ing for a while now, I’ve seen good gains. But have a slight problem, I’m not worrying about it as I know I will find the solution eventually. Hopefully faster tho with the help of some more experienced guys here. I have quit porn for a month due to finding myself kegeling while masturbating to porn, but the muscle was locking up not pulsing. So ive been a month with no porn and I relax my pc muscles when I wank now ( reverse kegel) but it just won’t come out, like it is being blocked. And i find myself building up a gradual strong front/top kegel, and have to relax again. I think I might have been training the wrong muscles all this time , I have been doing the muscle that is directly behind the penis. Haven’t really exercised the anus/testicle area. I’m thinking maybe my muscles are out of balance. As I say I’m not too worried. I’m not having regular sex at the moment and could stop wanking altogether to try and reset my muscle memory. Any advice guys would be greatly appreciated.