Langeman,
I just now read this thread.
Sorry to hear you backed out. I am with the other guys and think it was a bad idea, but you sound bummed out about it. The bottom line is you have to do what is going to make you (and your wife) happy.
Since you have already backed out, why don’t you try some of the natural ways to make them bigger and contemplate the surgery and what everyone has said for a few months? Hopefully by that time the natural way will be giving you good results and you will be happy with the progression.
I also think you should talk about the surgery with your wife before hand if you ever do have it. She may not be very happy with you doing this without talking to her first, not to mention her FREAKING OUT when she reaches down and feels 4 balls, two of which are huge!! Also, you said you were doing it for a huge bulge in your pants. I would assume that is for people to see outside your house. How would your wife feel about that? I can see her asking why do you want to have a big bulge for other women to see?
Good luck with whatever you do!