Cant cum from oral sex

I’m the opposite.when my gf gives me head.I cum in a couple of mins. My cock is sensitive when sucked.

Maybe its a case of the blowjob isnt that good? As in your girlfriend isnt experienced in giving head, therefore doesnt know what you like, what feels good, and you just arent getting the required stimulation to cum.

What if the blowjob is so good but I want to cum much later? I can’t seem to control it unless I tell her to stop. Any tips?

Practice alot of practice.

Hmm it’s been a year already but not much of improvement.

Well at least you gentlemen are getting head. My girlfriend refuses to do it now because I can’t cum to it and says “It does nothing for you so why bother”

Bah :cry:

I’m a “tough nut to crack”, as one lover put it, so maybe I can be of assistance ;)

Due to some serious masturbation (I have a ridiculous sex drive), I have a LOT of staying power, both vaginally and orally. Unfortunately, this means that I only come about 2/3rds of the time that I’m with a girl. I’ve found that if I edge during the act (for me, a minimum of 2 “waves” of increasing intensity), it builds up the pressure, which not only makes it easier to eventually come, but makes the orgasm that much more powerful — the sensation of semen flowing out of your penis is stronger if the Cowper’s glands are pre-loaded.

Sometimes, when I know I’m going to get some, I edge for 2 or 3 days before the act (I get blue balls after 4 — you may be different). I love nothing more than building up a huge load that I know is going to get blasted into a chick’s mouth or all over her! ;) I also try to respect (and impress) my girl by keeping healthy and eating from this list starting the day before the event:

Ouch!

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-Do you dirty-talk to eachother in bed?
-Can you get bossy/dominant with her?
-Does she sometimes give you oral sex after vaginal sex (ie. has she ever tasted herself on you and not minded/liked it)?
-Can you come during vaginal sex, or shortly afterwards with a few strokes of your hand?

If you answered “yes” to these questions [1], here’s what I suggest:

A. Edge, as I describe above, then get with her as you normally would. When you’re nearing blast-off (about 30 seconds to a minute out), growl/whisper in her ear how turned on you are. REALLY crank it up, and don’t be afraid to get lewd (maybe even a bit lewder than you’ve been with her before) as you’re nearing orgasm. When you’re almost about to blow, you have 2 options depending on which is easiest:

a1) If it’s easiest to straddle her chest (eg. from missionary), TELL her to open her mouth [2], then pull out and stroke off at her mouth.

a2) If it’s easiest to get her on her knees (eg. from doggy style), TELL her to get on her knees [2] and stroke off at her mouth, while you cradle her nape.

She should instinctively put her mouth on you, unless she wants a facial. If it seems like she’s about to suckseed (PI ;) ), TELL her you’re going to come in her mouth (in a desperate, urgent tone), then DO IT! [2]

Once you’re drained; collapse, heap praise on her, and tell her how much the thought of coming in her mouth turned you on.

B. Another approach that might work if you’re more “tender” than that is to tell her you want to come in her mouth when you’re about 30 seconds to a minute out. Again, be lewd and graphic, but give her time to warm up to the idea.

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If that doesn’t show her that you want to come in her mouth, I don’t know what will ;)

HTH!

-Glee

I don`t know if this will work for you, but my wife will use her teeth and stroke as far as she can go down the shaft, and all the way back up and over the head, feels absolutely great.
The only thing she dosen`t do is blow in her mouth, dosen`t like the taste.
Try that!

BK.

After a month of no bj and doing edging, I tot I could last longer.last night she bj me and boom it only took 1 min.she said her ex bf took hours to cum.should I feel sad or wat?