Delayed Ejaculation

Does anyone here suffer from this, and if so, have you found anything effective for the treatment of it

Twatteaser, sta-kool, and myself all have some degree of that going on.

While there is certainly a psychological component, don’t discount the potential contribution of histamine levels. (As originally pointed out by tt)

The 4 of us should get together, find some women who have a vagina of steel, and then record the world’s longest group sex scene, lol.

You can count me in on that one and no I have never found a solution but learned to just enjoy the positives of it and deal with the negatives. Also I meant count me into that category not the groug sex scene….but odder things have happened…

On a more serious note when I researched it I came up with this for me. It isn’t death grip masturbation. It is probably seventy percent psychological and thirty percent lack of sensation.

I’d much prefer this than the premature ejaculation I suffer from. If delayed ejaculation is the extent of your concerns you are lucky in my eyes lol

I’d have to say I’d prefer delayed to premature.

Where do I acquire that? I want some please.

Someone here once wrote that about the only way for him to come was that he’d be on top and then his gf, the kind and helpful woman that she was, would start squeezing and massaging his nipples.

I had delayed ejaculation for years from a combination of doing too many kegels and masturbating with too much pressure. I actually had a few girls I slept with tell me to stop at some point which hurt more than premature ejaculation, because they didn’t care anymore after getting their rocks off. It wasn’t until I finally stopped kegeling and edging for so long that I was able to relax my pelvic floor muscles and retrain my brain to ejaculate faster. I began timing myself whenever I would masturbate so I would come within 10-20 minutes of a porno. I also started pumping more often than jelqing and focusing on head work which helped in a way I could only describe as creating a greater mind to penis link. Whenever I do head work now I have to stop and start or else risk coming too soon.

I seriously think most of my DE came from doing strenuous penis enlargement exercises for years. The more I think about penis enlargement routines the more I think that we’re doing things wrong.

This may help I believe he is a member here.

I had this years ago, with my first long-term girlfriend. Just came from being too used to my own touch, I guess - looking at porn probably didn’t help, either.

I overcame it with the help of several things:

* a very understanding, supportive and patient girlfriend - often we’d have sex so she came a few times, then I’d get myself nearly there with my hand and dive into her pussy at the last moment;
* a very hot girlfriend, who loved sex and whom I was very attracted to (this is the same woman I’m talking about! :) );
* realising that I didn’t have to be a selfless ‘perfect lover’ every time we had sex, and that just doing things to concentrate on my own pleasure is perfectly fine - guys tend to like it when they can make a woman come, so remember that most women like it when they can make their man come, too;
* finding a position that allowed me to come relatively easily, and not being afraid to ask that we do it that way - I found (and still found) that some variation of doggy-style is pretty good for this - fortunately my girlfriend liked to do it this way too, as long as I was careful not to go too deep;
* general patience with myself, and trying to not to get too despondent when things weren’t working out but giving myself a big pat on the back (or rather, cock) when they did;
* yohimbe, yohimbe, yohimbe - did I mention yohimbe? This stuff is little short of magical.

If you tend to look at porn a lot while masturbating, it’s probably a good idea to stop or at least curb this a bit, and to masturbate less in general. Some people swear by masturbating differently, like trying to stimulate yourself in a more subtle way rather than just pumping away like you usually do, but I never really figured this out.

It’s all to do with ‘reprogramming’ yourself - it’s almost entirely psychological and it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with your dick! Having said that, if you’re circumcised I should imagine it would help to try and grow back at least some foreskin, or to wear one of those ‘head protector’ things to help restore sensitivity.

Good luck! I sorted my problem out and it was pretty severe to start with - give it time and I’m sure you’ll be fine.

I know this is a serious topic but the URL of that website has got me giggling like a small child. I want a treatment that works, not one that’s retarded! :)

Oh yeah, and one more point (fairly obvious, I’d have hoped) - keep some good, neutral lube handy so she can keep up with you! Remember that long sessions are more hard work on her cunt than they are on your cock, so repay her patience by being considerate.

I have suffered with this for many years. I can literally go all night and even over an entire weekend of marathon sex with my GF and NEVER cum once. It is very frustrating at times, especially when she is wanting cum. And then there are times when I can go 30-40 mins and bust a huge nut. There is really never any rhyme or reason as to when I can go quick or it will take DAYS!