Delayed Ejaculation

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If you’re circumcised you might benefit from wearing your skin over the glans to protect its suppleness and sensitivity (as with the Your-Skin Cone).

I’ve had this problem from time to time. Usually it just involves me not being to relax enough. I can stay hard forever, but I can’t cum if I’m not relaxed. For me, I think it’s mostly been psychological.

I’ve suffered from this ‘condition’ for years now. My first wife hated it and started to get a complex about not being able to get me to cum. Years into our marriage we starting swinging (her suggestion in an effort to ‘correct’ this). About 8 mths into it and seeing it wasn’t JUST her that kept me from having an orgasm she felt better about herself. I’ve literately gone entire weekends of almost constant stimulation and failed to orgasm once!!

Now many years later I still SUFFER with the inability to easily have an orgasm!! Thankfully I with a new woman who adores my ‘manhood’ and the fact that I can stay hard for hours on end while she plays and enjoys herself so it now works out for both of us. I would still like to have an orgasm faster, easier, and more often. This is a VERY frustrating thing but not sure how to fix it!! UGH!

Yeah, that is Yataghan50’s blog and it is excellent, especially the section on performance anxiety.