Desensitizing The Frenulum Through Friction

I do not have premature ejaculation, however my wife requires more time of nonstop movement to orgasm than I can last (and if I stop, it “resets” her), and when I apply a bit of lidocaine on frenulum before sex I can hold on.

So I recently had this idea… You know how your fingertips get thick as you play the guitar?

Since I have a very sensitive frenulum, I started to rub the area with this rough sponge I shower with, to shed some skin, hoping to make it grow thicker with time, thus making it less sensitive. I do it until I feel a slight discomfort.

What y’all think about this? Would it work, or would it actually do the opposite and thin out the skin, making it even more sensitive?

It might make it less sensitive. I would think it might cause a callous which I personally would not want.

What about using a condom? That usually worked for me to slow things

Cock ring?

Condoms don’t make that much of a difference, only the lidocaine to make it numb.

Are they supposed to delay things?

You could try to master the pelvic floor muscles…then you needn’t necessarily stop, perhaps slow, while really squeezing the pelvic floor to subside the feel. Added benefit is you are basically edging yourself during sex!

I’ve been doing kegels for over 20 years, my PC muscle control and years and years of edging are probably why I don’t immediately cum during sex. Trust me, I’ve worked on everything I could and all there is left is this oversensitivity on the frenulum.

The right cock ring may help your endurance, try a few, I prefer a whole package or behind the balls ring for sex.