Don't know what to do anymore about Premature Ejaculation!

I found my local fully qualified accupuncture practitioner and went there. I’m sure you could do the same. Prem Ejac is commonly cured by all accuncure practitioners. I called several before I chose one and they all said they had treated it many times in the past.

With the edging I try to stay constantly between 9.5 and 9.9, I usually manage to do this for about 20 mins before accidentally going to far.

Even if I do go to far, I seemed to gain the ability to immediately relax and just allow a bit of semen to drip out without really ejaculating. So the PC muscle doesn’t do any pumping and the ejaculate is a small trickle. You have to wait about 1 minute before touching the penis again, otherwise you will trigger pc muscle spasms and what is left of a full ejaculation.

Then once the intense feeling subsides you can carry on with a full errection. Pracising this seems to have de-sensetised my penis, allowing me to go longer and longer.

I just ordered the STU Fleshlight. Rush Delivery no less ;)

I’d love to know if it helps. Always like to hear more independent data.

Yeah, let us know how you get on. Interested to see if it helps.

I suffered from this problem myself.

Motivated has said basically everything I know and more, but he left out a small tip which I find VERY IMPORTANT.

When guys masturbate, they usually do it quickly just to get it out of the way. When they do this, not only does it encourage premature ejaculation, but it also keeps your penis extra sensitive (atleast from my own experience). Also, if you’re having a ‘quickie session’, you are probably NOT using LUBRICANT.

My suggestion is to use lubricant - something from a sex store that is water-based. You have to make sure you massage your ENTIRE penis, especially the head (and don’t forget your balls!). When you use lube when masturbating/edging, it simulates the vaginal fluid and with practice, you will become accustomed to the wet and warm feeling, which should help you hold out a bit longer.

Over time you should get desensitized. It worked for me.

Just my two cents.

Good work!
I know the session with the g/f was a great feeling of accomplishment. :jumpers:

And? :homer2:

zane,

I just removed yet another affiliate cookie from the Fleshlight link you posted above. That’s two in two days. Slack had one and then this one of yours. This keeps up and Fleshlight will disappear from the forum.

I honestly didn’t do it on purpose. From now on when talking about Fleshlights I will refer to my link thread. Are there affiliate cookies in those links? If so please take them out.

I do know Fleshjoe and we’ve swapped sex toy tips, etc., but I’m not trying to make him money here.

Just tried it out today.. Definitely feels real, as long as you let it warm up for a while. It wasn’t as tight as i thought it would be but it did give me very similar results compared to when i have intercourse with my g/f. A few deep strides and my arousal level went up really quickly.. shorter strides and I was ok.. but I was no way able to keep any stamina for a constant pace. More practice makes perfect I guess! I am going for the beginner goal in the book which is 400 strokes in 6 minutes. Thats a toughy! I’ll keep you posted.

I had this problem too. Here’s what I did:

First, please *her* first. If you give her an orgasm orally, she prolly won’t care that much about what happens later. Next, when you start the sex, take it super slow at first. When I felt like I was getting too close to coming, I would stop with it in but keep stimulating her in other ways (kissing various places, rubbing various places). Doing it doggy style is really great for this, because you have easy acces playing with her clit while you’re inside her. So when you do that, just take it really really easy until she’s nearly about to orgasm from you fingering her, and then go “normal” speed. Even if it didn’t last long, she’s had two orgasms, and you came together. Who wouldn’t love that?

Finally, if you’re not really satisfied from that, b/c you came too fast, just go back to the foreplay type of stuff for like 5-10 minutes and do it again. You’ll usually last longer the second time. But really you don’t have to last long to please most girls if you know how. If you both enjoyed it, what’s it matter so much how long it took?

prolly? b/c?

Just reading through this old thread and I agree with the nervous system excitability factor theory. Long story but my nervous system has been hard wired after taking a beating in my youth (you can probably guess what I am talking about), anyway been with my girl for a year now and still working on it but would love to have total control as she likes longer than a 5-10 min pounding (too crude?), but going to make a more concerted effort on the relaxation side of things and might give the acupuncture a try as well. Desensitizing condoms are ok, but we have talked about her one day soon going onto the pill and that is a different story entirely!
My 2c and a bit.

Love this site. Already noticed some gains in girth from a few weeks PE’ and particularly better erections (touch wood) hehe.

Peace

Hi ! the answer to your problem could be here. IMO you have just trained yourself to Blow quickly. Stay off wanking for a while or try to do it after a gap of atleast a week between two sessions. Its gonna be a slow and long process but Im sure it will help greatly. Most of the times the problems we face lie in our heads so take a positive approach to it. As someone suggested , try not to ejaculate while mastubating. Slowly build up the frequency of Non-ejaculatory masturbation sessions. Some yoga or other meditative techniques should help. Spend 10 mins each day visualizing a scene where you are having sex for a long time. This should help you get mind over body.

Also while having sex try not to go too deep. Just insert half your penis inside and thrust. Several shallow strokes(10-20) and maybe 1-3 deeper ones and then back to shallow strokes( Yes! count them if you can). Makes a big difference IMO.

GOD

Acupuncture works!! I am presently doing treatments and should be done in a few weeks. This has helped me on many levels: Lasting longer, but more importantly - NO MORE STRESS! - which was started to play mind games on me - I would be sore worried about blowing early, I couldn’t perform!

I really suggest if anyone is serious about CURING premature Ejac. - go talk the an Acupuncturist. If you live in the Toronto area - I have a good one!