ejaculation control!

Guys,
I want to learn more about ejaculation control. Is doing regular kegels enough or are there other methods? Also, how is it possible to orgasm without ejaculation? Has anyone been successful in this?

Thanks
Sean

kegels are supposed to allow dry orgasms once you’ve conditioned them extremely well.

I’ve experienced many orgasms without ejaculation prior to PE. I’m not quite sure if I can explain how it works but here goes.

You need to refuse yourself permission to come and then put that in the back of your mind, maybe by visualizing a lock and closing that lock. Its important that you don’t concentrate on this, but background it. Once this is done you can reach a lot greater level of arousal without coming, and this peaks in often multiple orgasms.

After this I actually find it difficult to turn on the ejaculation.

I’ve found its easier to do when your partner is providing the stimulation and you have limited or no control over intensity.

Yes, it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculating. You can do this without a strong PC muscle. You have to focus on 2 things: Breathing and relaxing the PC muscle.

Practice on yourself first. Moments before you feel the urge to ejaculate, breathe in deep through your nose and exhale through your mouth at a nice, slow pace. And really focus on relaxing your PC muscle & entire body because if it’s tightening up, then you’re going to shoot. Eventually, you’ll feel like you’re about to cum, but stay relaxed and work through it until you start to “dry orgasm”.

I can do this either on my own, or if she’s on top during sex. When she’s on top, I can concentrate on my breathing and relaxing.

As far as kegels go, I’ve been doing them for 3 months, and I’m finally starting to see some difference in how long I can delay an orgasm and how far I can shoot. Kegels definitely take some time.

SS

This is something I’m really going to try and work on, because I am scared of it, haha. I am a virgin, but I sort of feel like I won’t be able to last that long when I actually do have sex and I don’t want that to happen. I’m really glad that I found this website so I can work on things like this before I actually get to sex and feel like a loser, haha.

Haha everyone is awful their first time, so its pretty much expected, but this place is awesome you can learn a lot here.

My first time lasted awhile, but the girl was very experienced and in charge meaning she was on top. I always last a lot longer with her on top. That was the only time I ever had sex with someone other than my wife. The first time we had sex (she was a virgin) it lasted all of two thrusts! This really upset me and my reaction was so bad I almost ruined our relationship. Fortunately, we put it past us and the 2nd time we had sex… lasted almost FOUR strokes! This time we both laughed it off, and pretty soon we were having a decent go at it.

So my point is: expect it and don’t worry about it. You are going to be experiencing a lot of whole new, very powerful, sensations. It may take you a while to adjust to how your body reacts to them. Take it slow, don’t fret, and enjoy the process.

I feel like I’m different than every other guy out there. When I masturbate the longest I can last is MAYBE 10 minutes, but when I receive oral I last at least 30-40 min, and finally when I have sex I last around 2 hours. Is this normal? Can anyone explain why I last longer when the pleasure is greater?