Having Issues Getting It Up...

Well needless to say, I haven’t had sex for 3 years and was basically jerking off every other day for most of the 3 years. I am pretty sure I de sensitized myself on doing so.

The reason being is because I can get aroused and get it up but she likes to do foreplay first and once I get to the main event I’m not hard enough to get it in because she has a pretty tight pussy. She is smaller. I think the position has a lot to do with it, I’m on top and holding my weight on my arms and trying to get it in. It’s embarrassing honestly..

She understands why I can’t so she is helping me and waiting on me. Needless to say I ordered some Tadalafil 30mg bottle and I think that should help a lot on holding a hard on.

Any recommendations on stimulants found in food or pill/liquid form?
I will give a nice review once I get it and try it out.

Cock ring might help drug free.

I’m kinda worried about blood flow when it comes to those, I don’t understand how those help when it restricts blood flow. Seems like it would be bad for letting blood flow in.

The main suppliers of blood to your penis (2 main arteries) are in the middle of your corpora cavernosa, the 2 main chambers in your penis. Blood return out of your penis is done via veins on the outside of your penis. A ring works by restricting more blood flow out of your cock than what is going in.

Pump might help too.

Well that’s interesting, I may have to try that. I’ll see if this liquid has an effect on me and if not I’ll be ordering one for sure, any preference on brands?

Nope. I would just get a variety of sizes and change them out until you get the right fit.

Hey mate,

Why use drugs? They don’t solve the problem.

Just back off with porn for a week.

Try to do kegels. Light stretch or Jelq 2.0 from Tom Hubbard.

Don’t jerk off.

As foreplay sometimes playing from behind I mean while she sits on your knees, you can rub her breasts, tub her pussy from behind. Don’t know about you but when my penis touches my wife’s ass i got immediately erection.

You can make it more healthier way adding some things.

Food- if u like self made juice adding fresh celery and/ or ginger.

Ginger honey and lemon juice mixed together. Its so far one of best ‘blood flowers’ to me. Doh they don’t put me in erect state but they do help.

Thanks! I stopped dead in my tracks jerking off wise over a week and a half ago. Porn, I stopped over 2.5 weeks ago. It feels good not to do either but I would love to bust a nut with her.

I think you have something when it comes from behined, so far me laying on my side behined her gets me the horniest for some odd reason!

I’m going to get back to jelqing but I’m worried that might keep me de sensitized. I’m going to try a different position next time, I love standing up and have the woman lay on the bed spread eagle as I give it to her. Seems like blood flow gets better in that position.

Good for you!

Just be gentle with jelq use less force.

About positions I think its more about our brain getting better stimulation then blood flow. Damn if u would watch porn and touch your self you get immediately erect. Doesn’t matter if you watch it sitting laying or standing right?

Its allllllll in our brrrraaaiiinnnzzzz :)

I think you are right on that too, when we are together in bed it’s usually dark so I need that visual stimulation too. Maybe a lamp on would help. When she was sucking my dick I wasn’t feeling the full effect of the mouth so maybe have her suck harder too.

Candle. However it sounds I would try going gentle and softer at least at the begging.

Women are great lovers so if u will stimulate her oral very gentle she will do the same to you. After a while you can try go harder. Sometimes when my wife sucks my dick i love to do some kegels while in her mouth. Helps a lot to get harder and for her she loves it. Smiles and gives me some nice tongue licking something :D

Its weird but many times softer stimulation at the beginning gives better effects at the end :D

Thanks for the support and advice man!

You welcome :) Keep us informed did it help :) Wish you best!

I’ve noticed this too. Slow progressions just seem to be the best in everything.

Well I did do the slow progression and it worked much better. I had her start grinding on top of me at the beginning and that got things going!

Had sex 2 times last night and once this morning, I’m pretty much comfortable with her now. The stuff I ordered will be a plus and keep me going longer I suppose.

It would be nice to have an extra inch just so sex positions are easier.