HIV positive swinger

A lot of heterosexual guys feel a level of immunity to HIV. Because of that, they are putting themselves at risk for it. A lot of people think they aren’t having sex with “that sort” of people, and rationalize that its fine, even when they sleep with many partners they don’t know too well. The truth is you never know who is positive, and can only trust yourself.

This Air force sergeant is under arrest and being investigated. His wife claims he attended over 20 swingers parties in Kansas City, had unprotected sex with many partners, and hid his HIV from all of them. If this turns out to be true, he will be tried under the UCMJ. Swinger communities often think things like this can’t or won’t happen to them, when the truth is its probably happening a lot more than anyone knows. This guy’s wife apparently blew the whistle. How many get away with it?

Link to the article: http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20015296-504083.html

We are all grown up. We all make our own decisions. I have no judgements about what works for you. Just make sure you’re assessing your risk in a realistic kind of way.

Sobering stuff for those of us that are involved in this type of thing - The result, Always wear protection!

This is a bit off topic, but I’ve heard stories that some HIV positive people put infected needles in movie theater seats etc. with message “welcome to my world”. Really fucked up stuff.

What? Is there a Post-It attached to the syringe?

Anybody who has sex with numbers of people owes it to himself and the rest of us to get tested for HIV. Not just once, but with regularity. And if positive, to alter his sex life in significant ways.

Thanks, miamitop for the info.

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Hmmm…weird..I remember I heard this one too

Anyway the subject of the thread is indeed serious .

I have no sympathy for the people that may have become infected as a result of sleeping with this man, it’s one thing to have a one night stand without protection but to be a swinger and have unprotected sex is just completely stupid.

A case involving a German singer has been in the news for the last few weeks, you can read about it here:

Court to deliver verdict on HIV popstar Nadja Benaissa - BBC News

Well you cats can believe what you want, but I believe HIV is a benign virus and that AIDS is caused by other factors. But never listen to a fool :D

I believe if people didn’t have sex before marriage and then stayed monogamous, there wouldn’t be any AIDS at all.

And no one would care about the size of their dick, or if their new partner had ‘had a bigger ex’.

:D

A simple solution, but one impossible when people are given choice and rights without responsibility.

Regarding hiv, aids and so on, occams razor is in effect from this point onwards.

If I spend days high on whatever I could get my hands on and screwed whoever I pleased without sleeping, eventually my immune system would call the game and I would collapse with flu, bronchitis, pneumonia, etc.

No mythological victim mentality disease floating around to “get”.

I am a trained athlete who goes to far occasionally and burns out. If I ignore the signals my body is sending and continue to train and play without more rest, I will get flu symptoms and so on.

Should I wear a condom when I train?

I have given every single woman I’ve ever been with more orgasms than they can handle. And I’m not 10”, I just know what I’m doing. I read, I practice and I also know how to get in the head. That’s where the orgasm starts :)

IMO has everything to do with the preparation and little to do with dick size. But there will never be an answer to that argument.

If you look at the particular groups that get aids, you’d understand why they get it.

African 3rd world nations
Gay population
Heroin addicts

All three groups engage in immune-compromising behaviors. I don’t mean anal sex either. Nothing to do with it. Glad I’m not the only one that has not had the wool pulled over their eyes. But whatever, I’m not arguing just stating my beliefs and opinions based on what I know.

True. I wish we lived in that world but we don’t.

Care to pull the wool off everyone else’s eyes?

That depends.

Are you training in the nude?