Holding a strong kegel at the point of no return

Hey guys,

I have been edging and doing kegels every day for the last couple months. When masturbating and at the point of no return I hold a very strong kegel to hold off coming. Sometimes nothing comes out, sometimes a little precum, and sometimes a half load or so. But I don’t have an orgasm and am able to stay erect and continue masturbating. After each of these cycles of strong kegels the length of time to get to the point of return takes longer and longer. After the 2nd or 3rd cycle it takes a long time and a lot of concentration to orgasm and ejaculate. After I hold these strong kegels my erection loses some strength for a minute or so, and am wondering why it does this? Also, do any of you guys do this method to increase your stamina? I haven’t tried this during sex because I’m single now but I imagine it would work similar. Thanks for the input,

Cocksman

That’s the way to becoming multiorgasmical. I’ve done it.

Do any other guys on here do this method to increase stamina?

How do you stay erect after you hold off the first orgasm? I held it off, and it just felt like I cummed inside, but after that I just go flacid as if I just ejaculated.. And it usually takes me like 30 minutest to recover again.. What did I do wrong here?

I’m not sure what you did wrong, maybe nothing. But if you did feel the orgasm then you let it get further than I do. Even if some ejaculate escapes out, I still hold off the pleasurable orgasm feeling. After like 2 of those cycles it gets really really hard to come. I would say keep trying and expect your erection to lose some strength after you hold off the orgasm, but the strength comes back after going at it for a couple more minutes. I definitely don’t get flaccid though. By discovering this method that works for me, I don’t have a doubt in my mind that I’ll finally be able to give a girl a wonderful orgasm, or maybe two :) .

Hey,at the risk of looking ignorant,I would like to know whats a kegel?and how is sit done?? Thanks for any input guys.newbie.

Check this out: Dick Control: A Primer

B-)

lucydog, welcome to Thunder’s. You can find a wealth of information on kegels here on this site, or through google. But since this is your first post, I’ll go ahead and answer it.

A kegel is simply a contraction of your BC muscle (which is located in the perineum area and covers the bulb of your penis.) Here are two ways to locate your BC muscle:

1. Cut off the flow of urine midstream while taking a leak. That’s a kegel! Now, you can do these any time and anywhere and they’re good for your overall sexual health and well-being. Start off doing, say, 25-50 contractions a day, and work your way up to 200 to 500 over the course of a few weeks. Once you’ve got your BC conditioned, you can just do a maintenance routine of a hundred or so a couple of times a week.

2. When you have an erection, make your penis bounce up and down by clenching that same muscle. That’s an erect kegel.

Cheeva,

Do you do the method I use by holding back with a strong kegel? Or do you never even get that point because you;re a sexual god?

I still do it sometimes. I describe the method in the “Dick Control” thread.

At this point, for me, it does tend to be more of a mental thing, with just very slight muscle contractions and breathing exercises—it’s not something I really think about consciously most of the time, it just comes naturally.

But I did use the “super kegel”/”great seal” method regularly for many years. For me, it was essential training.

PS: I’m only a sexual demigod. :D