Holding it in

So I’ve been with this girl for a while now and every time she’s made me cum I’ve put on the jelq grip and held it til the urge to ejaculate is gone, because she’s not a big fan of being cummed on and she’s worried about the taste though I’ve changed my diet a good bit. Though I’ve come to experience some slight soreness in my testicles, I’m not sure if that is the only reason. My question is, can this be harmful to me?

Just cum on her, show her who the man is……..

It doesn’t sound very healthy to me? I know some people have done it before, but all the time?

Also maybe you could just wear a condom? that might be a good idea.

:rolling:

Yea, do it, do it….

I can think of about 45 different solutions that are better than strangling your dick to death, at the moment that is supposed to be the moment of RELEASE. But I really shouldn’t have to explain….

Use you imagination man.

OK, I’ll help you get started:

Solution 1. Instead of cumming on her, cum NOT on her.

Yeah, like a paper towel.

Cum in her face, in her mouth, in her vagina, in her ass.

Ask her about her preferences and compare with yours.

Fit: stay togeether.

No fit: send her to the desert.

I doubt you’re doing physiological harm to yourself. If you actually maintain an erection, or resume one with minimal stimulation within seconds of orgasm then you’ve backed into a really great skill as you’ll be able to repeated orgasm. If you can’t resume an erection then you’re probably pumping the semen into your bladder - still not the end of the world, but hardly very fulfilling.

Retaining semen so I can extend the sexual experience (maintain erection for more sex) seems worth the trouble, but if it’s just because she finds semen messy/disgusting then I’d probably go with some alternative like having her catch in in paper towel (or get over it). I dated a girl that didn’t like the idea of semen in her mouth but was also uncomfortable having oral sex performed on her - just the whole bodily fluid thing. She got over it eventually.

I hope your girl doesn’t have some serious hang-up about it - sex could get boring!

Paper towel? I’ve always used a Dixie cup for post-masturbation clean up though “One, two, three, CATCH!” isn’t quite the same game when you’ve got other options. I’ll talk to her about it

Now that I read that over it kinda sounds like ring toss. Or catching food in your mouth.

Just release on her face.they all love it :-)

I’m still trying to figure out who wears the panties in your relationship. Tell her ass its your orgasm and you’re going to have it. If you’re talking about when getting a blowjob, just tell her ass to move. Don’t squeeze your dick to death because of her. Any pain down there is a BAD SIGN and whatever you did to cause it must stop.

Hahaha I just about spit my corn flakes on the screen. I’ll tell her that haha

Problem solved. "Didn’t taste awful, but it wasn’t good” what I get for a week with minimal water and a poor diet. Oh well no more problem

Don’t be so sure that the problem is solved just because she swallowed once. I hope you acted very appreciative and told her how great it was, and how you loved it.

If you want to make it a regular thing, she is going to have to want to make it a regular thing too, for whatever reason. The reason she does it will probably never be because she loves the taste of your cum, but she might do it to make you happy, as long as you appreciate it.

Yeah I know, I made sure she knew that. It was actually her idea to swallow, to actually catch it in her mouth, in the first place. I would have been content splashing the rock so long as it came out.