I no longer want to cum, just have orgasms!

Lately, I have been getting less and less satisfaction from cumming. I now prefer to have orgasms with no or little cum. I love it. I even told wifey that this is the best for me and I have more cum to have more sex and or hold some in the reserves.

As you see in all my posts, I think every man over 30 should be multi-orgasmic.

Read the book: the-multi-orgasmic-man for all the information on how to do it.

NOTE* this is not edging. This is going the distance and then holding the ejaculation and having a full orgasm.

I think this is fun and I’ve experimented with it, along with circulating orgasmic energy via the microcosmic orbit technique. It can be extremely enjoyable.

The one thing that keeps me having lots of ejaculatory orgasms is that there is definitive evidence that regular, frequent ejaculation reduces risk of prostate cancer. The best demonstrated reduction in prostate cancer risk is in men who ejaculate 21 times or more per month, which reduces the risk of prostate cancer by at least 30%.

There is an old saying in cancer prevention: "If you have a tube, keep it clean." This is why fiber and regular bowel movements reduce colon cancer risk and a history of lactation reduces breast cancer risk.

Ejaculation Frequency and Risk of Prostate Cancer: Updated Results with an Additional Decade of Follow-up - PubMed

I can have my first non ejaculatory orgasm before I am hard. It confused the hell out of the wife, when I had a wife, and confused the hell out of my last girlfriend. The last girlfriend believed that if I didn’t cum I wasn’t satisfied and would ride me like a maniac to try and make me pop. Funnily she never complained about round 2 or 3 or the next morning as we went again.

Good skill to have. I do pop when I can to keep the pipes clean.

SB

It is good to hear the comments.
I believe these studies are for men who don’t have sex at all due to lower EQ, stress etc.
What I am talking about is the same "Cum" amount but stretched throughout the week. This allows for more sex and ready for whatever wifey is wearing.

My calculation is based on the fact that I get 4 really good pumps of cum when I fully ejaculate. All sex sessions for me last 30-45 min.

Before 30 - Twice a day 5 times a week , no problem.

Before being Multi Orgasmic at age 31 when natural EQ dropped: 12 pumps of cum. Living concerned I don’t have enough EQ for surprise sex sessions
M- Full ejaculation (4)
T- Rest
W- Full ejaculation (4)
T- Rest
F-Rest
S- Full ejaculation (4)
S- Rest

Now being multi-orgasmic: 12 pumps but 2 extra free sex sessions with no less EQ:
M- Multi Orgasmic (2 pumps)
T- Full Orgasm (4)
W-Rest
T- Full Orgasm (4)
F-Multi Orgasmic (1 pump)
S-Rest
S- Multi Orgasmic (1 or 2 pumps)

I think you all kinda get the idea!

The study doesn’t evaluate men who don’t ejaculate at all. It compares low frequency (4-7 times per month) with high frequency (21+ times per month).

It found a lowered risk for the higher ejaculation frequency. There does seem to be a linear inverse relationship between increasing ejaculation frequency and decreasing risk of prostate cancer, at least up to 21 times per month.

I recall that there is data that men who don’t ejaculate at all have an even higher risk of prostate cancer than everyone else, but those are older observational studies (of Catholic priests if I recall) and aren’t referred to in this paper.

I’ve said it multiple times on these forums…

Use it or lose it.

I love edging and the longer I can edge, the better my orgasm eventually feels, but I gotta ejaculate at the end.

I notice that the more often I ejaculate, the more often I CAN ejaculate and the more orgasms I have on a daily basis, the shorter my refractory period is.

I’m at the point where I can ejaculate and just continue, without stopping and without losing my erection onto the next orgasm.

Conversely, if I haven’t ejaculated or orgasmed in a few days, I find my refractory period increases and I am capable of less ejaculations, reinforcing my belief of: use it or lose it.

I mean, we know this is true when it comes to muscle mass and cardio fitness… why wouldn’t it apply to sexual fitness and ejaculation specifically.

I say this while I’m visiting the old country with my wife and child, staying with family and we haven’t had any privacy for a week, so I’ve ejaculated once this whole last week… so I’m not a happy camper…

Yes. From comments from women I’ve been with, most guys just squirt, pull out, and they’re done. Made me feel rather studly as I kept on going.

Ya, exactly.

The other thing I’ve never understood is all the guys who squirt, pull out, and then DON’T want to cuddle.

Umm… wtf? Why would you want such a wonderful moment and experience to end so abruptly?

Whats your recipe to stay hard after you cum.

Daily masturbation with lots of edging and multiple orgasms :)

Interesting to see how you got more sex out of a week with this approach.

21 times? what does the average man do on his remaining two weeks? Or maybe those are weekends when he’s supposed to take care of the kids…or too passed out.