I'm an attractive 20 year old guy thats impotent and suffers from PE

How about finding that shift key man_head?

Go to an urologist, he’ll know what to do. They deal with problems like yours at regular basis.

What a horrible problem. We should all appreciate the simple things we have, and take for granted, like a hard dick.

Why do you need to be coersed into seeing a specialist for this? I would be RUNNING to the doctor, knowing there are good looking women who want to fuck me.

And why not get some viagra. That is what it was designed for. Then you can start fucking these girls while you are figuring out with your doctor what the real cause is. A good fucking with the help of Viagra will do wonders for your self esteem, even if you know that you had a little help.

There is a reason for your problem, and you need help figuring it out.

Well the fact that you can at least masturbate suggests it may not be medical. A cheap way to solve the problem is to try some Viagra. If that is effective it is either a cardiovascular problem or a mental problem.

I think it is quite possible that PE has shaken your confidence by focusing you on your goal to get bigger. I also gather you have some other STUFF. You do seem to be a mess so I would try stabilizing emotionally. I am against running to the Dr. Especially if their are no other symptoms. It seems to me you will just waist a lot of time and money on a problem that shows good evidence of being emotional. Just read your post you are worried before hand about your performance. You can’t be worried and turned on.

It sounds like you are in a degenerative cycle of anxiety producing ED that produces anxiety etc. If you could get some chemical stability through Viagra it could restore your confidence. Hopefully that will relieve your panic. You really need to work through some issues but that will take more time.

I would guess you have sexual self esteem problems and probably more general relationship confidence problems. I would need more info from you but I do have some ideas on how the guys here may be very helpful to you. They are a very supportive group.

So how do you feel about your size?

How often are you premature?

How do you deal with it when you go too soon?

What did you tell the hot girl when you couldn’t?

I think the vast pool of experience here could probably come up with strategies to mitigate these disasters.

A good plan can do wonders for anxiety levels.

If you don’t want to answer these questions in depth here PM me. We can get the forum involved again once we have sorted the issues out.

Yeah, what’s your nocturnal erection like?

He has a serious disfunction that needs to be solved. If it is not a physical problem, the doctor can figure that out pretty quickly, and it definitely IS worth the trip. He states he has no morning wood. This is not indicitive of sexual anxiety. He says he has trouble even when masturbating. That is not indicitive of sexual anxiety. The physical problems need to be ruled out. I would check Testosterone, Free and bound, leutinizing hormone, follicle stimulating hormone, complete lipid panel, blood glucose, etc.

Are you a pschotherapist or just the nurturing type?

The problem he does not seem to be a physicist. If he, had hormonal problems of importance there would be more symptomatology that the reported one.

It is advisable to do a checkup, but I do not believe that he finds not relevant at all.

If the examination was negative a psychological therapy could help

Moorth basically head the nail on the head.

I’ve cooled down a bit since last night and have thought about it today. I do have HUGE amounts of anxiety. I think the Premature ejacultion just set me off in a tailwind of performance anxiety.

I used to be about 70lbs overweight through my childhood and would masterbate constantly(4-5 times a day). Every conversation with people my age at the time was always about girls, sex, etc. It seems like I made it out to be the most important thing ever………so important that it freaks me out of I fail.

I lost 70lbs or so when i was around 16 and put on a lot of muscle really giving me a good physique. This really messed with my head, because I went from being this chubby kid, to a guy that girls just wanted to have sex with for sport, and I really didn’t know how to deal with it.

I lost my virginity when i was 18 on a one night stand with a 22 year old senior that was just about to graduate college in a few weeks. I met her walking down the street, and was having sex with her 45min later. I really didn’t know what I was doing(and was drunk) She asked if I wasn’t hard and I just deflated like a balloon.

After that I didn’t have a problem getting hard, but I would blow right when i started having sex(as soon as i got my penis wet); then I wouldn’t be able to have a full erection my second time around. Eventually I started avoiding sex period. I would actually have girls spend the night……in my bed, and I wouldn’t even try to do anything. I’ve rejected girls that want to do stuff with me. Now, This girl from last night was so hot I just didnt even care so I went for it, and was completely limp. I remember I was so anxious that I was actually shaking/trembling.

I do get morning wood sometimes, and other times I don’t. Sometimes its fully hard, and other times it’s spongy. I was heavily involved in PE, and when I lost my virginity I just stopped because I felt the PE was a problem. I went from a 5” to almost a 7” size penis, and I hope that I wasn’t too rough on myself and actually physically messed something up.

I masterbate once or twice a day, and am uncut. I’ve noticed that I can’t even hold out for more then a few minutes when masterbating. It’s like I automatically clench the hell out of my PC muscles when masterbating, and there is nothing I can do about it; it just does it automatically.

Now I don’t know what options I have, or how I can go about fixing this.

Not a thing wrong with you physically. Stop masturbating with your hand, use a Stamina Training Unit Fleshlight, and cut back to masturbating three times a week. Not watching porn. That’s what Dr. Zaneblue prescribes. ;)

definately going to be cutting back on masterbating. I’m going to completely stop for a few weeks and see what happends.

I think that if I were to get some viagra and use that to have a good sexual encounter it would really boost my confidence when it comes to having sex.

Do I need a prescription, and how do I go about getting it? Also, how does it work? Would I just pop one right before I’m about to have sex or what; and how long does it take to kick in?

You’re supposed to go to a doctor, ideally a urologist, first. Remember?

I already did go to a urologist and have a blood sample taken about 6 months ago.

I would personally like to avoid it if possible since my insurance doesn’t cover it and I’m in college so affording it would be tough……..and I feel my problem is mental and not physical.

I’m not against it, I’d just like to try other alternatives first.

I’d do my best to avoid casual sexfor a while. If you can find a steady girlfriend you might be able to slowly work up towards sex.

Thats what I did for about 4 months, and it left me worse off.

You might have told us that in the beginning. And what the uro say about the blood test?