I'm an attractive 20 year old guy thats impotent and suffers from PE

Your life story is so similar to mine themighty5 that it’s scary.because I could not perform or even try ( after disasters) with some of the girls that hit on me my colleagues and friends would some times think that I was gay! Now I am more mature and don’t really care what they think but at college it was very stressful. ( I bet this is familiar to you too)

I too don’t get morning wood and when masturbating often only get semi hard. Often (95%) I have cum prematurely when having sex too, I believe this is caused by not having a 100% erection and stimulating alot to get hard when in reality you should have been hard long ago. I do look at porn now to help masturbation but I had this problem years before I had the Internet or even a porno mag.

As a very young man say 18 or 19 I had a very small penis too and really never felt that horny too so wasn’t chasing the girls like my friends were although the constant sex talk eventually influenced me.

I have done alot of research on the net and believe that only you can really understand what is going on, many many doctors will tell you it’s all in your head but this is simply rubbish! Sure some of it may be but the fact that it’s not working as it should be then added to the stress will cause this, but that’s not the underlying problem. Iv had testosterone supplements as I have lowish testosterone.( in the normal range but the bottom end. Some people function OK in this range but others do not.) Any way this didn’t improve my situation after several months.( I used androgel patches, starting on 2.5mg and moving to 5mg and even put 2 on at once after little to no effect) I had diabetes and thyroid tests too all of which came back normal..

A friend of mine ordered some Viagra off the Internet but it wasn’t official Viagra and was very cheap and although I think it had some effect it certainly didn’t have the effect I was looking for! I’m not sure if it was fake or not( or some cheap alternative ED medication made to look like Viagra) but it did little for me, id love to try some official/real Viagra just so that I can suss out whats what. I mean if that’s doesn’t work there must be some real underlying problems.

I believe my problem may be a leaking vein as the head of my penis never goes inflated it’s wrinkly. Only when I jelq or hand clamp the bottom of my penis does it stay inflated and this slowly goes down. If it’s isn’t this it must be a hormone imbalance of some kind (for what it’s worth when I had my testosterone results they said that my sodium level was a little high and so was the female hormone in my body but the doctor said that this was healthy for producing sperm..

Any info from any one would be great. I’m sorry to hear that others too suffer this depressing condition. The only positive thing it has done is made me a very well rounded individual and a very thoughtful understanding person to other peoples inabilities in life.

it’s either your heart or your liver. after you go to the doctor and confirm, you’ll probably need to take the following:

Garlic - chelates your veins
Yohimbe - increases blood flow
L-Arginine - dilates your veins
Milk Thistle - promotes liver health

dont start taking the Yohimbe for about 3 weeks after you start the rest of the supplements.

same thing happened to me at age 20, i’m 22 now and i’m cured. it sucks though because i have to stay on top of my supplements every day. but it’s not that expensive.

Hey this might have been stated previously, but the reason you can PE sometimes is that you can’t get an erection. Therefore you usually use your BC - PC -whatever muscle to try to get some blood in there.

I have noticed when I do that I tend to ejaculate 102831838x quicker.

Does anyone know how to obtain viagra in the UK? Would it be covered for the NHS or are they quite reserved, bearing in mind I’m 19 and have performance anxiety.

I’ve read before that there are two types of impotence: psychological and physiological. I also remembered that lack of morning wood is of physiological type. Maybe something’s wrong with your system. Also note that these two types are not mutually exclusive, that is, one can have both. Maybe a good urologist can be the most credible pal.

Lack of morning wood could be a psychological issue in some people who are mostly depressed or suffer from anxiety. For example it’s illogic to have morning wood when all you see in your sleep are nightmares and disturbing dreams.

Wow, I just got laid again this morning with another new girl and came searching through this site to see if there was any new information to help me out with my problem. Funny that this thread got a bump because I havent been here since.

I basically think I’ve narrowed down my problems to Premature Ejaculation. I get anxious/nervous because I know that as soon as I start having sex I’m going to blow my load in a couple seconds, and because of knowing that it affects my erection quality.

I guess I”ve sort of just accepted my situation and given up in a way. I just really don’t give a shit anymore its way to stressful. I’ve just been getting it on when I can and have been with about 15 girls in the past year or so, and almost all of them have been failures.

I’ve tried everything to fix the problem with no luck

Doctors
Deferol
Other Supplements
Acupuncture
quitting masterbating
not looking at porn
fleshlight

I feel like if I just get my premature ejaculation under control it will solve the rest of my problems….but who knows how I’m going to do that.

Try 5-HTP or St. John’s Wort. It will take 3 weeks to see results, but that should help. And go to the doctor to check on your heart and liver.

Seriously… TRY EDGING NOW!

I used to have a hard time not popping in about 30 seconds. I’ve tried just about everything before, and edging was the only thing that really helped. But I would still do kegels, I did them before, and I think they were useful for the strength to control your ejaculation.

You need a minimum of a half hour to set aside for wankin’ it. Hour better. You’ll condition yourself to know when to back off, then a minute later you should be able to get fully hard again soon. Fast internet connection and a good supply of porn helps too. :mwink:

Think about it… If all you have ever done is popped quick, that is what you are conditioned to do. Your mind and body must un-learn that. Now I get rave reviews from the wimmenz. Have intercourse until you are close. It will probably only be a few minutes, but that’s OK. Pull out, and go down to that lovely place between her thighs. Even if she begs you that she wants it, don’t worry, she’ll change her mind soon. Don’t just go at it for a minute, go at it for a while. Then back to intercourse. If you are like me, as long as you didn’t ejaculate, you’ll be able to get fully hard again, and last much longer. Repeat as many times as desired! :D

I forgot to mention that I have also tried a lot of edging with no luck. I got to the point where I was masterbating 2-3 times a day for 30min a time without blowing my load to see if it would help…nothing.

You’ve got to fix your erection problem before you can even start edging.

well i’ve basically come to the conclustion that the erection problem was due to stress/anxieity from the PE.

Hi,
Was your penis okay before? Or did it become like that after something happened? Because for a while I could hardly get it up after a bad break up, but then it passed and now everything is fine. Also, try smoking weed before sex, that what helped me.

Are you circimcised?

no