Originally Posted by omgitscj
Why did you get a vasectomy in the first place?
After our last child, my wife got worried about being on the pill. (the dangers of continued use) I thought, at the time, that our 3 kids were enough, and my wife and I both didn’t want another baby so close to the birth of our third.
In hindsight, it was a hasty decision that we both regret. (we did make it together). Unfortunately, after the vasectomy, we both started diving into our individual activities “full stop”. (for those in the UK and Australia :) )
Somehow, my worth as a man, was subconsciously impacted by not being potent anymore. I am potent now. That is behind both of us. So, on with whatever life holds!!
Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.