Lap dancer has given me some sort of awakening. Whats going on?

This is so damn true. Experienced this a few months ago. Visited a large regional hospital twice within three weeks to speak with a specialist about my back. Between those visits I had reconnected with Elizabeth, a former cheerleader and high school classmate, and had made the decision to enter into an affair with her. Was thinking about Elizabeth and felt on top of the world as I entered that hospital for the second time. Swear to God that when walking through the hospital to get to the Spinal Clinic, had what I’d call four separate ‘Micro Flirtations’ with attractive women ranging in age from late thirties to early fifties. An example of a ‘Micro Flirtation’ is when you encounter a woman passing by who upon seeing you then suddenly perks up, and flashes you a smile that says, “Well, hello sexy”. Or she might actually stop you, perhaps ask for directions, maybe even start a conversation in order to flirt.

Honestly felt I’d stepped back in time and was in my thirties again — the time in my life when I was at my peak, and women routinely flirted or checked me out. So yes, your state of mind definitely impacts how you carry yourself, the image you project, and likely your hormones and neurotransmitters. But whatever it was, it sure seemed like MAGIC.

OMG.

Just back from seeing her again.

I sat her down and said, who are you and what have you done to me. I then said, are you into energy flows and chakras because you have unlocked something within me. She replied that she didn’t practice it directly but she was aware of her energy moving in her body. She then said that her grandmother, on her death bed, had proclaimed that she, the grandmother, was a witch and that she, the dancer, had powers that she needed to channel. (Now I take granny thinking she is a witch as to not understanding chakras etc.) She knew of the chakras and as she approached me I said you have just fired off my second chakra.

My lovely dancer then thanked me for accepting her energy. She also said she would speak, discreetly, with her auntie as to what had happened with someone she felt a powerful connection with. Stay tuned.

This is the sort of stuff I was believing in as an young man. It never happened so I dismissed it. Now after dismissing it, I find its real. At least for me.

SB

It does seem that things seemingly not explainable can occur when it comes to physical attraction. Will be interesting to see if your dancer’s aunt sheds any light. Regardless brother, enjoy this ‘magic’.

Who really knows what this energy is. Yoga and Taoism call it prana, chi, jing, life force. Science hasn’t shown much evidence of it, but it also hasn’t looked at it much. Possibly some level of electromagnetism, possibly some sub-atomic particle interaction with consciousness. Mystic interpretations can have some odd traditions associated, so have fun but be careful you don’t end up in a witch’s cauldron! :chuckle: Hopefully end up between her legs instead.

I have to second that, Brother. So here’s hoping that you do end up between those electrifying legs on that dancing beauty.

Hi Golfclub,

It has changed again and now fires off at the groin, so you were correct.

SB

Yes, same thing here.

A woman at work has taken an interest and is talking to me and I am getting looks in the street that I never got before.

SB

I wasn’t going to write this but in the end I thought I know I an true in what I write so here goes.

There is more to the last visit.

The dancer had, on all dances, given the groin a bit of a rub, either with her hands, leg or grinding her arse on it. And it is great. I am currently 18-18.25 cm, so a little over 7 inches. I am 13.24-14 cm girth depending where you measure, think base and thick head. So 5.25 inches in the middle. Above average but not extreme.

We have a game where she shows me her erect nipples and says, that is your fault. I grab my crotch and say, that is your fault. She then says, i will own that. Similarly after one dance I had a ridiculous amount of pre cum which I told her about and again she replied, I will own that.

So I planed that when she said something like that I would lean back and create a silhouette of my penis in my pants so she could see the outline.

So we are having a great dance and she shows me her erect nipples. This is your fault she says, showing me the erect nipple, then she says, and you made all the bumps around the nipple stand up so it doesn’t get more erect than this. At this point I had actually forgotten about my plan / fantasy. However because I had thought about it I suppose I just did it. I lent back and cupped my erect penis around my pants so she could see the outline. This is your fault, I said.

Well, she just froze, mumbled something and sat there. I leaned forward and said, Sorry? As to indicate I hadn’t heard what she said, and fishing for her opinion. She paused and finally came out with, you are very well endowed. I replied, thank you.

OK, let us come out of the story for a min as afterwards I had some concerns. She mentioned that she was lucky to be able to express her sexuality as well as she can given what happened to her, of what, she did not elaborate. In a book I have been reading a classic response to a trigger of past trauma is freezing. Flight Fight or Freeze. So I will check with her next time as to if I did trigger a negative memory or response. I am not in the business of hurting people and will adjust my behaviour accordingly.

Now back to the story.

We continued with a lot of arse on cock grinding. I was able to get into a position so that her grinding also massaged my balls on the chair. At one point I was worried there was going to be more than pre cum in my pants but it was OK. She then lay back on my and while I was caressing her she reached into her groin and started the two finger oscillation across her clitoris. By this stage she is going off. I whispered to her, go for it or will it ruin you? She said it would ruin her and she needed her sexual energy high.

Then the staff tell us time is up. I thank her and she starts to get dressed. She then says, you dont know how close I was then.

I thanked her for the dance and then thanked her for the compliment about my dick. I said, while we know we are OK or above average there is still insecurities. She turned to me and said, Length is nice, girth is what get us off and you have both.

There is a god.

SB

I forgot to mention that after seeing my dick outline and at end of the dance she had her face near my groin looking up at me with a beaming smile.

Fantastic. All that hard work really seems worth the effort when your girl praises you.

It is not hard work. I love it.

Lapdance?

No. I love PE. It’s not work for me it’s pleasure.

And I love the Lap Dances.

Getting abs contraction when the wave of energy comes over chakras no 2. Intense,

Indeed interesting. Does it mean the woman is thinking about you?