Yeah, that was fairly cocky. :-)
I realized when I was learning to be multi-orgasmic that this would be something very difficult to teach.
You have to intimately understand every step of the ejaculation process, particularly the build-up stages and learn to associate particular sensations with each. At what point do sperm begin moving up the vas deferens? when is the urethral bulb filling and what that feels like; then the split second prior to fluid movements out of the seminal vesicles and the prostate. Once these latter contractions begin the game is over and you might just as well just enjoy a wet ejaculation.
Because an unanticipated movement by a partner can throw all the timing off, it’s necessary to learn to do this through masturbation. Further, if trying to figure it all out while having intercourse you are at the disadvantage of not being able to see what you are ejaculating or not. The learning curve to this is a highly visual one.
Retrograde ejaculation is common fallout from strong kegel pressures and since for many men it feels to them quite like a wet and foreward ejaculation, they may think at first that they’ve succeeded in a dry orgasm whereas in fact they have not. I’m lucky in this regard in that if I go retrograde I know immediately, well before the erection begins to subside. If you are susceptible to retrograde shooting, you can though learn to distinguish the early sensation of that possibly happening and quit while you are still ahead of the “expulsion stage” of orgasm and try again.
What I’ve not been able to train myself to do is go beyond two dry orgasms. Having more is a sort of wall for me and I have to let the third one be wet. (If you’ve got a tip for getting over that barrier, surfnitup, I’d sure like to hear it.) Still, three good orgasms in one session is a lot more than I was able to do before learning this technique, so I count myself ahead from that point of view.
We’re very close to posting some physiology articles here at MSHF that westla and I have been writing. A lot of that may help a number of you to get a better handle on learning the multiple orgasm process - and/or have longer and stronger orgasms, even if you don’t perfect that. At the least many of us will learn a lot more about our own reproductive systems, and some of that info will apply to PE, too.