Odd question

hey guys, I have a bit of an odd question, and hopefully I can start a discussion about it, It’s been bothering me for a while.

I just wanted to know if a girl called reach orgasm and enjoy it fully from stimulation if she was disgusted by the person who was sleeping with her, and if she wasn’t happy with having sex with them, would she still get great pleasure and orgasms if the guys dick was 10 inches? Explain the answer for me please

Maybe some of the females on the forum could chip in with some answers too.

Thank you so much, know I can count on you guys for an answer.

I seriously doubt it. Having an orgasm is a mind/body experience, and if the brain says no, forget about it.

Well gprent pretty much answered that for you. Orgasms for a woman, as most of you guys know, aren’t easy to achieve. We really do have to be mentally connected. If a woman is “disgusted” with a man she is sleeping with chances are she’s not really achieving an orgasm.

Is this to assume she is not happy based on the size of the guy? I don’t like to assume, I’d rather be sure of what you mean.

I read somewhere that only a small percentage of women are able to reach orgasm during intercourse; I think it was like 20% or so. I’m not sure it’s due to “disgust”. It could be a lot of things mental or physical; probably mental.

I’ve never brought my girlfriend to orgasm in the 3 months we’ve been together (I tried everything!). It’s not because she is disgusted by me either. If a woman is disgusted by you she wouldn’t let you sleep with her.

pingpang,

Can she achieve it with herself/others. If so,ask her to show you how she does it to herself. It may help you learn how to do it for her. Also ask her for advice as your doing it. Once you have it down,then enjoy:)

errmm… with regards to my last reply. I don’t know what it’s like to be married… or un-happily married. So maybe the disgust factor comes into play there.

If you just mean during intercourse, then there are lots of girls who don’t ordinarily achieve it that way. Maybe the relative position of the clitoris has something to do with that (just speculation).

Jersey, yeah… she totally can and she doesn’t want to show me! WTF!

That’s weird dude. Are you two having other problems?

What reason does she give for not wanting to show you?

Sometimes people use sex as a power thing. I actually knew a guy who wouldn’t have sex with his girl,even went so far as to tell her he was impotent, as a sick way to control her. How f’ed up is that. And she was gorgeous!

There are no other problems between us; none that I know of. She says she likes to feel someone else doing it to her using a different technique. Which kinda makes sense; I like to jerk-off with my left hand because it doesn’t feel like my own :) She also says that when she does it to herself it’s never really as good as when someone else does it for her.

pingpang,

I’m not following.

(1)Does she not climax with you at all,or just during intercourse?

(2)What different technique(manual,oral,intercourse), and why won’t she show you what it is?

(3)You can jerk off with both hands? Lucky bastard:)

In my case, me not reaching an orgasm has nothing to do with disgust at all. It’s just sometimes I can, sometimes I can’t.

1. not at all

2. She says when she does it her way with her own technique, “it’s never that good of an orgasm” she says, but she does reach orgasm at least. I’ve done everything, oral, manual, intercourse… even basic anal play… no dice. I’ve tried my best in communicating with her to find the right ways, spots, angles, pressure and speeds etc… She still prefers the way I do it over her’s she says, which is why she is not showing me, but it still hasn’t lead to an orgasm for her. She is just not into showing how she does it. Sound a bit wierd?

That communication issue is the only thing that frustrates me with our relationship. It has lead me to PE. (which is sort of a happy twist). I believe its some psychological hurdle that she has to overcome.

3. No, not 2 hands just using the left as a substitute for regularly wanking with my right.

does that make sense?