Orgasm without Ejaculation

I’ve been visiting this forum for a while, but post sporadically. I remember reading about having such a developed PC muscle that you can orgasm, control your PC muscle spasms, and ultimately stop ejaculation. I was wondering if anyone has experience with this, or if anyone has been able to master this technique. For a while I could control PC spasms about halfway through an orgasm but have never fully mastered this technique. Comments?

I am reading book called The Multi-Orgasmic Man, and I have learned lots of things.
Two things to have in mind:
1) Dry Orgasm: When you hold PC muscle so that you cum doesn´t came out and you loose erection
2) Orgasm without Ejaculation: You need lots of practice to master it. You have to know very well when you are close to ejaculate and then send the energy(chi) to your head and you don´t loose erection.

this post may help you:
Continuous Male Orgasm

I heard that people died on that, if you overdo and then can’t hold it anymore. I also heard a few times that in China they women used their hair needles (or what these things are called) to stop their lovers from ejaculating so much that they die, by pinching off their pc muscle. Just what I heard, could be bullshit but I heard it a few times.

I’m talking about a dry orgasm. I know that someone on this forum had mastered that technique…Chime in!

I didn’t master it, but I got good at it. Can do two dry orgasms (not losing erection) but the third is always a full, wet ejaculation.

This takes a long time to perfect, no matter how good you are at kegels. Understanding your own ejaculation process and timing is everything.

I’ve mastered it.

I read a bood called “How to Make Love All Night (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for prolongEd Lovemaking)” By Barbara Keesling.

This book gives easy to understand instructions. It works great and makes sex unbelievable. And best of all, you can do it when you want, and skip it if you want.

Some comments I’ve gotten from women.
Ex-wife: “You take too long.” & “Jesus Christ! Will you just cum already!” we didn’t have a good relationship, and she didn’t want to have sex with me in the 1st place.

Ex-girlfriend(lynn):
Lynn - “Did you cum?”
Me - “Kinda.” (then I procede to keep going)
Lynn - “Oh my God!”

another ex-girlfriend(nameless):
Her - “Men can’t do that.”
Me - “Really? let’s find out.”
Her (later that night) - “Oh my God. You wore me out. I’m sore.”

My current GF:
Her - “can you really do that” (after seeing the book)
Me - “yes I can.”
Her - “That’s amazing, but can you keep it to just one dry orgasm…..I can’t go for that long.”

Just a little sample of what you can do after mastering what’s in the book.

sean, I envy you.

However. three ain’t an altogether bad thing, either. ;-)

Nope, I wouldn’t mind three :) . Usually by the time I have my first one my girl has had anywhere from 5-7 and can’t have anymore anyway. At least with my current stats.

You may have to work at this for some time - maybe months, took me that long - you always trying to understand what the various sensations of the various ejaculatory spasms (seminal vessicles, prostate, pc muscle) feel like and their individual timing for going off.

Learn also the difference between a retrograde, dry, and a forward ejaculation are. They feel different. You will usually lose the erection after retrograde. Don’t encourage this happening. You want to stop emission, not go backward.

Hmm reading this I don’t think I have mastered drycumming completely yet. I think I may experience retrograde ejaculations most of the time when I try to drycum. Any idea how I should change my technique to stop emission completely without it going backward?

Piet -

Probably what is happening is that ejaculation has already started when you clamp down; fluids from the vessicles and the prostate are already on the move. When you then clamp down, a tiny bit late, they have nowhere to go but backward, into your bladder. You ejaculate, but backward, and the game is over because the signal has been sent for prolactin to surge in (this happens as soon as ejaculation - either way - begins); prolactin immediately dampens the erection and you fall into the “refractory period.”

The time to clamp down is just before that split second of “inevitability.” You can only learn this - the certain sensation that occurs at that moment of inevitability - through masturbation, not sex with a partner. Clamp a tiny bit sooner. It might work better.

Thanks avocet8, I will try this next time. I enjoyed the going past the point of no return and just squeeze against the contractions so I wouldn’t come thinking I would save my cum that way. Guess I was wrong ;)

I never see white semen in my urine after a retrograde ejaculation though, but perhaps I’ve just never looked for it (good enough).

Now I’ve never had a dry orgasm but I’ve had the opposite. For some reason now that I’ve increased how long I masturbate from the 3 or so minutes I used to last to 15-20 minutes currently, I will ejaculate without an orgasm if I don’t go for about 10 minutes. I think this also applies to sex. I’m not sure since I’ve only done it four times but on two of those times I wasn’t able to last long and I only ejaculated. I’ve also noticed that my orgasm’s are much more intense now then I remember them ever being.

I know I’m going a bit off topic but I don’t want to start a new thread.

Another thing that I noticed is that my refectory period is very short. So short sometimes that I don’t even get flaccid after I ejaculate and I’m able to go again right after the hyper-sensitivity goes away about 30 seconds to a minute later. I’ve only had one chance to have back to back orgasm’s with a woman so I’m not sure if it is something I can can consistently do. Now that I think about, every time I’ve had sex I’ve had an erection that lasted 5-10 minutes after the last sex act, unfortunately I was almost never able to use it or find out if I can go for three.

avocet8,

I have had same Orgasm without Ejaculation and only occurs when I DON`T CHAMP my PC(you have to trap your brain), but I didn’t mastered yet. If you really wants to have a full body orgasm without ejaculation you have to learn to do it without champing your PC. Right now when I try to have an orgasm without ejaculation(and without using my PC) I can get success only about 10% of the time and 90% of time I just blow my energy off.

I think it is much easier to learn to have Dry Orgasm and then move to orgasm without ejaculation.
I can have 5 dry orgasm in 1 hours, but I still lose my hardness/energy(chi) when I do it. When you have a Dry Orgasm you lose same of your energy, but not as much as if you have cum.

Within two more mouths I will master it!

>”Within two more mouths I will master it!”

Is that a slip of the tongue there dafranca? :)