PE "Premature Ejaculation"...

Gotta love this line!

RWG. I have suffered from this problem for as long as I can remember. I’m not sure if it is because I started masturbating at a very young age and have therefore trained myself to cum quickly or if it is genetic or health related or what.

I am lean and fit and never really have a problem getting laid if I put my mind to it. But when I do get laid it’s usually fairly certain that I’ll blow my load too soon. Like you, I have become a master with the tounge. Also if I am in a situation with a girl where I am fucking her regularly, then my staying power does tend to improve.

However, if I’m honest I would classify myself as a quick shooter. I would like to sort this problem out, so:

How do I find a really good acupuncturist?

Do they give you advice on how to eat/ look after yourself, to balance your kidneys, or whatever, in order that you don’t have to go back there all the time? Did those four sessions sort you out for a long time?

Do you think it’s not worth going to get acupuncture unless I’m in a relationship where I’m putting it all into action? If I do get the acupuncture and end up jacking off as usual will I fall back into my quickshooting ways?

Do you do kegels as well? Do you think these make any difference?

I would very much like to settle down one day, but I would like to be a stud for a while, and when that special lady comes a long I want to be able to blow her away with my dick size, technique, and staying power, and not have to say sorry after I blow my load.

Cheers
RWG

Yo RWG

Wuddup? Share the wealth baby! One more question: Has your saying power been permanently improved?

Yes, I would say it has been permanently improved. There are times where I loose it too soon (according to me) but even on those days I last much, much longer then I did previous to PE, pumping and accupuncture. Kegels didn’t do shit for me so I no longer do them, in fact they seemed to make the problem worse. True, with a strong PC you can “STOP” yourself from Ejaculating but that was never my problem. I shot off within a few seconds so with all the PC exercises I was doing I would have to stop and ‘clamp’ down every several seconds which was bullshit. I needed to be able to last longer before the urge to cum would take over…

RWG

RWG, could you pm me with the address and details of that acupuncturist?

RWG,

Thanks a ton for the post. I never used to have this problem but it seems in the decline of my last relationship I retrained myself to be fast. I have been hoping these exercises could help untrain me and make me feel better about my size and give me some self-esteem back. If all else fails I will definitely look up an acupuncturist for sure. I just don’t have anyone to “practice” on yet to see how long I can last now :)

Also, man I know exactly how you feel about your wife cheating. I have only been with basically 2 people since the end of high school. With a few in between breakups :) The last relationship being 9 years.

This last relationship I was in was with a girl I basically settled for. She was always chasing me while I was with my High school sweetheart. She was a friend and became a best friend. She was the chick that would come over on Sunday to your house while you and your buddy’s watched football hung over from a weekend of partying and clean up for me do my laundry and cook me something heh. She even said she got her implants for me heh. I knew she had always had a big crush on me so eventually we ended up together. She always cared way more about me than I did her. I felt she was the “safe bet”.

Everything was great for the first say 5-6 years awesome sex, great friendship and I loved her family. I eventually came to believe we we’re soul mates but never poped the question ( not sure why ). Even though at first the love we shared was uneven so to say, I eventually fell deeply in love with her. I let her know my deepest insecuritys and my main one my “size”.

A little over 2 years ago during a week long fight/breakup. I was staying with my Father while she stayed at our house. On the way to work I thought I would stop by and see whats up. She had been going to bars every night with some pretty shady friends. Well I caught her in bed with a guy I knew since High school and briefly worked with. She was naked under the covers he was dressed sleeping on my side of OUR bed. It took everything I had not to kill him, because I knew what happened. Still can’t sleep sometimes because of this.

Amazingly we ended up staying together. Why I don’t know now. But in the last two plus years of our relationship nothing was ever the same. We we’re distant. She didn’t want me to “last Forever” in bed so thats when I retrained myself to be the minute man I am, or was hopefully. I cheated on her for some payback, she found out and we still stayed together :/

We finally are broke up now for 8 months and recently just stopped talking a couple weeks ago. What sucks is I still have feelings for her. But after all we been through we just have zero respect for each other it seems like. I miss her family most of all, they we’re a awesome bunch :(

Anyways didn’t mean to high-jack. But I too have suffered from premature E and have can relate to your story .. Minus the 9 inch dick lol :) I wish :) Good luck to you and your wife stuff like that is very hard to overcome. Not insinuating you can not do it though :) We never tried counseling had no kids and we’re not married.

What exercises helped for PE

RWG,

I have also had this problem, and man it’s disappointing, my ex-gf was really understanding about it, but it just made me feel inadequate. I still have not been unable to get a handle on it so far. Did you do exercises similar to the newbie routine on this forum? Also, can you message me with the information on that acupuncturist. I may just have to make the trips to Seattle if this can really be cured in this manner. Are these the only two things that worked for you - PE exercises and Acupuncture?

Thanks in advance —- email - prince_ali07@hotmail.com

RWG, I don’t know if you’re still around, but I have a question.

How did you get to your acupuncturist? Did you simply and randomly choose that doctor’s office or did you somehow search for the best acupuncturist? I want to try it. My progress with exercises has been too slow, and I even suffered a major setback. My problem is finding and choosing the right acupuncturist. I live in Europe, so I can’t come to your acupuncturist in Seattle. I want to find a local. Are all acupuncturist able to do this treatment, or is this one of yours a specialist for sexual problems?

Hi guys. Nice to be here. Here is my story.. I need some feedback please.

I am 20 years old and suffer from premature ejaculation.. The thing is that till now I have never had sex in my life. A couple of months ago a got my first girlfriend and we are together since then. How I figured out premature ejaculation? Well even now, when I get close to her, cuddling and stuff like that, or even when I talk to her in the phone (!), it seems that I ejaculate.. No orgasm, but my penis gets “too” wet, without even being in the erect size. It seems to me very confusing. This goes on for the whole time we are together and I am in a state of semi-erect and wet all the time.

As far as I have researched this can be due to no experience in sex and to psychological reasons.

Anyone had any similar experience? Any suggestions?

Thank you in advance.

You are only oozing “pre-cum,” a fluid produced by the Cowper’s glands (you have two of them). They create this fluid when you are turned-on sexually. You won’t know if you have premature ejaculation until you actually have intercourse and see how it goes. Meanwhile, don’t worry about the pre-cum, or about premature ejaculation.

YEAH!! OLE!! I can relax now :) thanks a lot for this info.. Anyone else that may have to add anything to the above is welcome :)

RWG- great thread.

I too came to thunders after searching the web for "the other PE" premature ejaculation and stumbled on thunders as a result.

I have to say that thunders has helped with both of my PE issues- I now am slightly larger and last somewhat longer. but it’s still a crap shoot.

I have heard of a few other people that have used acupuncture to resolve this issue, and as I am in Seattle I just need to work the nerve up to go the this acupuncturist once I get the info from RWG. Once I do that I will report back.

As far as the medicine as suggested by A8 I had come across this link a while back from web-md WebMD - Better information. Better health.

-stubbs

That sounds promising, stubbs. I just wish they could bi-pass the numbing effect on the penis in treating this. You can already numb yourself with products like Delay and condoms with lidocaine on the inside. Sensation is what sex is about. Do they have to some of take that away? :)

If I remember right, the Johnson & Johnson drug being worked on takes a different route. I’ll see if I can find out more more about it for you.

The RWG solution only requires that you have to guts to say to the practioner that you have premature ejaculation so he/she knows what to zero in on. No needles at all in your cock, only elsewhere.

Well is this acupuncturist in Seattle the only one in the world who can help with premature ejaculation? Why is everyone mentioning Seattle?