Premature ejaculation at an all time low.

mravg - I have put several hours into trying to figure out what changed and I can’t seem to find anything. The one thing that may have had something to do with it was I tried supplementing with l-arginine and yohimbe. I noticed by my lasting power was gradually getting lower and I discontinued use of them immediately. After that, my stamina went back to being great only until a month or so later and the premature ejaculation was back.

slanker - do you have personal experience with using SSRI’s? I suppose you meant 10mg or less and not 10 grams. Have you had any success with taking only 10mg?

The dose needed depends on which drug you choose.

nope but I read about it here.

I’ve cured my premature ejaculation

Pull out and smack her clitoris with your head — it erases all orgasm feelings.

I was on 50mg Sertraline for 3+ months without any noticeable improvement, nor did I experience any side effects. So, I think everybody reacts to it differently. In my opinion, I think you should stick with doctor’s prescription, and keep your doctor informed with your progress. The doctor can adjust the dosage for you as needed.

I think it is all in your head and has to do with anxiety. The part quoted above kind of cemented that thought for me after I was already leaning that way.

I have been through the same thing especially in my younger days. Now that I am a bit older I can usually last a pretty long time most of the time, but still ejaculate a bit early every now and then.

In my case, except for the early years when I came quick regardless because I was so wound up I guess, I didn’t have the problem much at all except for when I really liked (loved??) the girl. If in my head I thought of the girl as just a slut to have sex with I would usually pound like a pro, but when I was thinking that I want to be with this person for a long time and really like her I had problems. I try to make myself think of them as just some slut during sex even if I think they are probably nice girls or whatever.

My advice is to get your head straight and work on the techniques found in this forum.

I am no expert, but if you asked me what I would do it would be to work on the mental part while using a flesh light on a regular basis making sure you are working towards lasting longer each time you use it (basically edging). If you have never used one, they feel pretty dang close to the real thing. I think it is a great tool for this. In my opinion, it is definitely worth the $50 or so investment, not to mention how much fun you will have using it.

Also, I have read a lot of people say don’t use porn, but I feel the opposite. For myself I think that using it especially with the flesh light makes it as realistic as possible in comparison to real sex and really helps to be prepared for the real thing. I like to think it is me in action and even go at the same pace and strokes as the movie sometimes.

Hopefully my ramblings may help a little bit.

good luck!!!