Reduce Girlfriend Chafing

Hello Boys,

So I have been having regular sex with my girlfriend every day or every other day and the limiting factor to how much we can do it seems to be her chafing. We both have high sex drive. I turn her on very well, she gets dripping wet and even has told me that I make here ‘perfectly wet’. So its not a matter of ‘getting her warmed up’. She says that I’m the thickest that she ever had and that especially in the beginning it was a little uncomfortable. She also says that its when I put on a condom that she notices the chafing problem heightens.

Any advice on how to minimize this chafing problem?

Elementary my dear Watson, elementary. Lube.

Get some of the “Wicked” water based lube sold at most adult stores in a small, translucent black bottle. It’s flavored without the aftertaste and adds the lubrication and kills enough friction for you to get as much tail as you like without chafing.

A thick penis, especially the thickest she’s had, will move her natural lubrication around enough that while she “is wet” the wetness will move around in front of your dick.

More specifically, your glans and upper shaft will move her lubrication deeper inside her like a wiper blade and make in strokes problematic and slowly friction her canal closer to the entrance and cause her vaginal canal to not lubricate your shaft regularly or long enough. A good lube will stay attached to your penis, especially the shaft, enough for her to no longer have that issue. Think about it. Even during heavy rain, right after a swipe of the wiper blades…the windshield is completely dry, as the seal between the rubber and the glass is perfect. If she’s very tight, the seal between her canal and the upper part of your penis (especially with condoms) will be perfect. Hence the application of lube behind the ‘wiper blade’ to keep the area moist for friction activity.

This is a big dick problem, a mushroom head or big MSEG problem especially. Get much bigger and you’ll deal with spotting or blood during sex. This is why I warn guys about gettin’ to much thicker. *laughs*

Thanks TG, I can always count on you. I will check out the Wicked lube.

You didn’t say otherwise, so I’m (statistically) assuming that you’re a circumcised American.

If you add some slack skin through non-surgical foreskin restoration that will both reduce the direct friction to her and improve the retention of her natural lube. You being more supple and ticklish will let you interact with her in a more gentle way, and you can focus more on pleasing her with your mouth and hands.

Also, if you’re cut you probably have coarse hairs further up the shaft than nature seems to have designed. You should remove the hair from any skin that can be drawn onto the erect shaft. If you shave it she will be chewed up by the stubble, so you’ll also need to pluck. It’s not that bad. Just keep robust (scissor style) tweezers by the toilet and use the time you’d be sitting there anyway. I did this, because my shaving immediately harmed my wife due to the stubble. But I have since restored my foreskin and now years later I can shave and never pluck, because there is so much slack the hair-bearing skin is never dragged into her; it bunches up at the base of the penis as I poke into her.

You sir are correct. I am cut. I am aware of the harm in being cut. I am totally in your restoration camp. Are you Ron Low? If so I’m a huge fan of you an Chuck from foreskin restore. I wish I could put more time to restoring. I have use both devices and have gained a bit of skin but now my life is hectic and I have not yet figured out how to restore on a regular basis and not hinder my fast paced life. One problem is I’m more of a robust and muscular guy and I wear more form fitting cloths. Its hard to hide a DTR or a tugger in my pants.

Also Plucking…I did this and I am just getting over a wicked ingrown hair just about halfway up my shaft on the bottom side. I have plucked before and not had this happen… any ideas on how to minimize ingrown hairs? Maybe I just pulled that one wrong…?

Now maybe Ill put some thought to restoring more…

I don’t have any tips to prevent ingrown hairs. But when I was plucking I wanted to find out if any authorities advised against it. I found dermatoligists’ web sites where they didn’t discourage it for facial hairs. That’s as far as I got.

Cheers,
-Ron Low

So I went in a bit too fast the other day, for lack of time, and this caused a vaginal tear that my gf says bled a little…

I vowed to always warm her up properly before storming the castle…

I bought lube for the first time…

I have resumed my foreskin restoration efforts with a casual use of the DTR in the morning and evening…

You know, I talk about vaginal tearing all the time on the site. I had one partner that tore so often it no longer was an event. We simply did not match up together well, even if I wasn’t storming the castle. Lube is required at girth 5.25” or greater if you’re going to be considerate. In most cases.

Don’t you have veet hair removal cream in your country? If you do consider using that instead of shaving. It works great and over time less and less hair grow back. I have to clean down there regularly because of my gains. My hair goes half way up my shaft and if there is hair, you can expect some pain during you jelqs.

As stated above LUBE is your friend. Sex with my wife is a no go without it. The one that works for us is ID silicone. That being said she still bleeds almost every time so being slow and considerate is a must. Lube is expensive but worth every penny.

We are using coconut oil as a lube. Works great with both PE and sex. Well, the sex has been on the no-go areas at the moment, but it did work great, and have a bunch of health benefits. Coconut oil can also be used in a host of other stuff. I have noticed that it gets absorbed by the skin after a while, no if you’re planning a marathon sex session it might not be ideal, but if you’re like me and 20 minutes is enough to satisfy the both of you it should work great. Plus its not too expensive.

We used lube for the first time. It worked great but I think we went a bit lube crazy and used too much. I used astroglide

Also… Lube on cock + condom = slippy condom. I would advise against this.