I see the tendency here to talk of sexual energy as opposed to other types of energy. There is no sexual energy, just as there is no walking energy and there is no thinking energy. There is only energy( ki, chi, megin, hamingja- call it what you will). You use that energy for what you need it for.
I see people here afraid to orgasm too often because they are afraid to use up all their sexual energy and get weak.
It’s as if people think there are different energy bins in your body. each labeled for a different purpose, Each with a finite amount of energy.
This is not the case. The ki flows through you. You use it for sex ,or what ever you do, and more comes in. The one spot holds all the extra ki. All actions you take draw from it, yet I don’t hear people here who say they are afraid to walk, type, work out, or talk too much for fear of using up all of their energy and becoming weak. Yet all of these activities use the same energy from the same source.
Does that make sense?
If regular activities can not use you up, why would you believe sex does?
If you wish to get stronger you must push your boundaries. If you are afraid to do this, how will you ever learn to store or handle more ki?