The dick control primer solution

Has anyone put into practise the exercises in the dick control primer and have they worked? How long did it take to see results?

I’m getting very frustrated with my premature ejaculation. When I was with me ex wife she wasn’t really into sex so she wanted a lot of quickies. The thing with her is that it took so long to cum and there were plenty of times that I couldn’t cum. We’d routinely go longer then 30 minutes. I actually used to make fun of preamtures. I guess it’s come back on me. With my current girlfriend she loves sex so I wanted to make it last a long time with her. But I can’t usually go longer then 5 minutes. Sometimes I have but generally it’s between 3 - 5 minutes. I don’t get it. I don’t understand how with my first girl I could go forever and with this one I cum right away. So frustrating!

I think I have asked a similar question before but without any definite answer. That is, I didn’t see a reply stating “Yes, I had premature ejaculation and doing ____(fill in blanks here) cured it”. The only thing which I have seen that solved the problem is with SSRI, which I also tried with no significant improvements.

Anyways, I think lasting 3 - 5 minutes is not that bad. The term “premature ejaculation” is being used very loosely. I read somewhere that it takes an average man only two to three minutes to ejaculate, where as some defines the term as ejaculating before his partner reaches an orgasm.

Does the simple stop-and-go method not work for you? For many of us, myself included, we ejaculate much sooner than that, quite often under a minute. Lasting three minutes is something that we can only dream of. I would be happy if I could last three minutes of thrusting, stop, then go again.

Could the psychological factor be affecting your performance? Is your current girlfriend hotter/sexier than your ex-wife? Maybe your girlfriend has a tighter pussy? (Sorry…no offense to your ex-wife intended. Just brain storming some possible causes here).

Very often the best method is to have a ‘quickie’ Then go a second time after a foreplay session. Then a third if you really have stamina. :)

My website has a section on premature ejaculation, follow the link in my signature.

Yea, we tried that before and worked, but only to a degree. The thing is that my body is so used to ejaculating so quickly that I would reach the PONR soon after achieving an erection.

Ejaculating before sex would usually delay the time it takes to reach a full erection, but as soon as an erection is achieved, I lose control of everything. I don’t know if I am making any sense to any of you here, but I am doing my best to describe my conditions. I am sure I am not alone here. In worse cases, I would ejaculate with maybe only 50% erection. This usually happens during the “first round”. I have heard that this could be a sign of ED, but I have this condition for as long as I can remember…dated back to my teenage years (I am 33 now), and I never have any problem with my EQ. It is as hard as a dick can get.

Man I think it is not premature ejaculation, I think that the change of woman causes that. You were used to your ex-wife, to the tightness of her vagina, size, body, movements, etc. Probably your new girlfriend vagina is tighter, and you get excited easier with her because its new stuff. I tell you this because I just had the same problem, I could last an hour having sex with my ex girlfriend, but with the new one I fight to last ten minutes!. A good exercise for that is the edging, masturbate during at least 30 minutes, everytime you feel you are about to come, stop breath, separate your balls from your body , and start again. If you want to improve the excercise , add cream or anything that would make it feel more real. This gets your brain used to last a long time. Hope this helps you bro.

Sorry when I said stop breath, i meant stop and take a breath, separate your balls from your body( lol sounds silly but thats the best way I could think in explaining it, usually when you are about to have an orgasm, your balls get really close to your body, what I meant, is that you have to grab them and pull them a little, so they are not ready for the orgasm and the sensation of coming leaves)

Sometimes when you are trying to last a long time, you try to “hold it in” and that will make you ejaculate. Maybe when you were going for quickies, you weren’t trying to hold it in, made you more relaxed and less tense.

I think that actually could be my problem. I just don’t know how to get over the mental aspect right now. I’ve tried things to take my mind off trying to “hold it in” and making it last as long as possible, but I keep going back to the same thing of worrying about cumming too soon.