URGENT : I need some advice, can't get hard, please help.

Hi there. I tried posting in the Men’s sexual health forum, but I don’t have sufficient rights for that. Please excuse me if this isn’t the right place to post.

My story : I’ve been dating for couple of weeks this new girl, she is Amazing.. Just amazing. We do all kind of stuff, even in public places, I touch her everywhere etc, we get turned on etc.. 2nd - I’m not really proud with my size, 6.1 bone pressed and about 4.7-4.8 in girth (mid schaft).. The problem is that she’s been with many guys before, and I’m like an amateur I haven’t been with a lot of women .. (I’m 21).

Yesterday we were in my car, we went on the back seat and she sat in me, she started dry hump or whatever, she took her panties and I don’t know what happened to me, I just couldn’t get hard, and I’ve been experiencing this with the other girls I’ve been before.. She started asking, doesn’t this feel good, and similar questions and I got even stressed and we stopped there.. I felt really really bad. The problem is that I usually take some pills, that contain l-arginine, tribust terrestis, ginseng and guarana and they work like a charm..

My guess is that it’s from the occasional watching of porn, or just stress, I have no idea and I don’t know what to do..
My last desperate move was to buy Phizer Viagra.. And I’m meeting her tonight again..

My questions :

Does anyone know how to take the viagra, how long before intercourse.. I’m currently scared that it will NOT work for mee either.. :( :(
I’m really insecure with my size, I’ve been a member, I’ve been doing the newbie routine, gained like .4 inches in lenght but I had a lot of work and with college, I stopped.. I’m really not sure if I’ll do enough “damage” if you know what I mean..
Does anyone have any tips, on how to relax before sex or.. How to prepare yourself.

I know these questions may sound ridiculous, but I’m desperate and seeking some help from my buddies in TP..

Thanks !

Lol your problem is mentally bro, if you are having any problem lately fix it and remove it from you brain, just focus on your girl, are you afraid of your penis size ? Maybe she will like it maybe not? For the mean time you have no option clear your mind and use what you have good luck

About an hour on an empty stomach. Chew it up and hold the paste under your tongue and it’s quicker, but it taste like shit. Next time get 20 mg Cialis. It works better and is much more palatable.

I know the problem is entirelly mental, but I can’t seem to find a solution. My main problem is that my unit looks too small when flaccid. When I get an errection, I think it looks good, pretty normal, but before that I don’t really have the courage to take down my clothes.. You know what I mean ?

It’s very sad thinking that a 21years old need viagra…

Just stop:
-watching porn
-taking other pills/shit
-doing PE
-masturbating

You should get your hard bones back very fast this way.

I know it’s sad, and that’s why I feel so ashamed. The thing is that, when I put on porn, I get an instant boner, just like that, in 30 seconds..

When a girl sits on my lap, pre-cum starts dripping from my dick, it’s half-errect and I can’t get it on on 100%..

Has anyone here experienced the same thing with the pre-cum ? When you dry hump girl for a long time, after that you find pre-cum all over your dick ?

She’s probably not going to care what it looks like when it’s flaccid. Most girls don’t care that much. It’s when it’s inside that she’ll start caring what it feels like. Believe me, a lot of women can get very stimulated from one or two fingers. An average sized penis is going to be just fine.

I believe we’re on here because we want larger penises because we want that kind of confidence that a larger penis can bring but a woman is not going to evaluate you on the same level. She’s not thinking about it as much as you or I or we are. Believe me. She wants your confidence in yourself and you can turn her on with a variety of things besides just the penis itself.

If you’re afraid of anything going wrong just tell yourself ‘I’m going to completely F this up’. That’s a choice. You can tell yourself to do it and you will. Or you can tell yourself ’ Everything’s gonna be SPECTACULAR ’ and IT WILL BE. You don’t think in detail about what’s ahead. You don’t need to do that. You just tell yourself what’s going to happen ahead.

You’re a machine. All you need to do is give yourself a quick set of instructions. You don’t make it happen by thinking. It just will happen on it’s own. Allow it to be amazing. Live in the moment or you’re not even there anyway. If you want to worry, worry. If you want it to work IT WILL WORK.

She’s may have insecurities too. Try and think about alleviating hers and being sensitive about that.

The only thing ridiculous is being insecure about your size. THIS is your problem.

Average length is 5-6 inches, girth (circumference) is 4-5 inches. You’re at the large end of average. This link sounds correct from other size surveys posted here, I put because it was easy to find.
http://www.fles … m/buyers-guide/

A few other basics you should have picked up from this site: penis size doesn’t really matter to most women. Other thing is that women are terrible at judging size and can be cruel to men about it. If a woman says she had a dude with an 8" cock, it was probably more like 6-6.5".

Oh also, don’t forget to tell yourself that your own personal toy is coming over tonight and you’re going to do whatever you want with it. I know she’ll probably appreciate it. She is going to be starring in YOUR porn tonight right?

I agree. A real girl is better than great porn anyday. Your replacing your hand with her body.

I’ve worried myself out of errections before. Don’t worry just make up your mind that regardless of your experience your going to give her ALL you have.

Yep, I’ll add that another BIG thing is don’t eat a big fatty meal. (You’ll probably eat on a date). I didn’t heed the warning once before, finally being on a break day from dieting. I took it once before with great results, then the second time after the big, fatty meal pretty much zero. Just eat normal, avoid fried stuff. Check out Pfizer’s site for their recommendations.

Pavlovsdog ! Thank you for that post man ! That was so inspiring ! THANK YOU !

I’m really hoping that viagra can get me started with this girl, and I’ll take everything in my hands slowly after that.
As for the size - Yeah I know that is on the bigger end of average but.still I think I’ve ruined my mind watching porn.. Like compared to a girls ass, my unit looks super small.. And in porn the guy’s dong is pretty proportionate to the girl’s ass.. That’s what really bothering me like.. Visually.

Let us know what happened in GRAPHIC detail. With diagrams. ( Unless it went horrible of course. And yes, I’m sort of kidding ).

Dude, viagra at 21! You have some issues there hehe!. Anyway, I am 20 and I done it before…

Agree with the above posts. Relax, masturbate less, don’t watch porn, PE slowly ( know that your dick will get bigger ), forget your anxiety, get rid of the viagra ( at 21 you shouldn’t need that), and when you do finally get hard; fuck the beejibbies out of her as hard/strong/long/fast as possible… leave every ounce of your willpower inside her. After that you should be confident that at least you got off ;)

If you are truly worried about sex. Just do lots of oral, if your not into that give her the ol’ fake chow.