Why Don't I Enjoy Sex?

I have had similar problems as the ones you’ve described, I used fucibet and skin stretching to make mine retractable, even now years later I still prefer sexual intercourse and other activities with my foreskin up. Without being too crass, how is the sensitivity on your frenulum?

Omg I’ve had this same exact problem up until I was 19. I’m 22 now. I am also uncircumcised and I still feel no pleasure at the head, still don’t enjoy blowjobs either. But my current girlfriend was a virgin and after sex with her a couple times, I finally ejaculated through intercourse.. We were on and off so I had opportunities to have sex with other girls and it took hours but I would ejaculate now. Before I never did. Even now it’s impossible to cum with condoms with someone I’m not extremely into.. I never visited a doctor. But now I’m engaged to said girlfriend.

Have you ever had sex with a virgin?

You don’t mention PE. If do some PE things wrong, you may damage nerve endings in the glans. What do you do PE-wise?

Porn definitely will decrease sensitivity on a physiological level, the daily masturbation to the porn can effect it on a physical level. So that’s a lose/lose situation. Also, look into your pelvic floor. That can greatly reduce EQ and sensitivity.

But first off I’d say ditch the porn and learn some masturbation techniques to regain sensitivity.

Your low-T may also be a significant contributor here. Not a quick solution, but I would highly recommend you see your doctor about getting some hormone treatment. As far as difficulty reaching orgasm, that can be such a complex set of issues that there may not be a simple solution. It seems to me that step one is to figure out what’s preventing you from getting or maintaining good erections throughout intercourse. Do you have any difficulty maintaining your erections while you masturbate?

Every time I’ve had sex It feels like the penis head is lacking sensitivity (sexual pleasure sensitivity) and often takes ages to orgasm if at all, I’m 23. I am uncircumcised and am wondering if it has something to do with years of master-baiting with the foreskin covering the head/glands? When I masturbate I use one hand on the base which often provides more pleasure than on the head. I am limiting faps to 1 per week but still no difference. I also suffer symptoms of low testosterone and often struggle to stay fully erect during sex but not always (ordered some ED pills to see if this will help)

What can I do to increase sexual pleasurability, primarily glands/head?
Any creams/supplements/medicine which heal nerve endings on penis head OR make penis more sensitive?

I am seeing a girl on Thursday so any help ASAP would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

Been no fap for a few days and have noticed considerable more erections and more sensitivity. Do you mean doing pelvic floor exercises/kegels can reduce EQ/sensitivity?

Well there you go, that says a lot. Imagine doing that for another month how much better things will be. You may have found your answer already man. Stay focused on your goal.

And that was a big mistake. I did not mean decrease, I meant pelvic floor work can INCREASE your EQ and sensitivity. Your pelvic floor could be weak, or too tight, or even both. It’s more common then we realize. A lot of guys think they have issues with their dick when really it’s the pelvic floor. I was one of them.

Lack of head pleasure especially after starting PE for length could be a sign of nerve damage.. You visit a urologist for this type of issue. If the issue will require major correction, visit 3 urologists to make sure your not being lied to and to compare quotes.

Well there you go, that says a lot. Imagine doing that for another month how much better things will be. You may have found your answer already man. Stay focused on your goal.

And that was a big mistake. I did not mean decrease, I meant pelvic floor work can INCREASE your EQ and sensitivity. Your pelvic floor could be weak, or too tight, or even both. It’s more common then we realize. A lot of guys think they have issues with their dick when really it’s the pelvic floor. I was one of them.

This. Agreed. Masturbating is terrible. I’d suggest you get an artificial vagina to fool around. Stop stroking for 3months and check back.

Are you sure an artificial vagina won’t have same affect has masturbating as its not a real person?

Yes mate, the hand grip when you beat the monkey is extremely tight, pussy isn’t. Try avoiding porn, what I do to masturbate is listening to porn with my eyes closed. I used to have a bad porn addiction, that shrunk my dick for sure due to tight grip. Eat a live diet, free of fat, sugar and mainly wheat. You’ll thank me later. Lifting weights really boosts testosterone levels

I think you’re on the right track, especially limiting your JO. The pressure we apply when we masturbate is rarely the same as through vaginal intercourse, so you get used to the pressure, rhythm, intensity of masturbation and then when those are different with sex our body doesn’t respond quite as well. So by limiting your fap you can help reset your penis and body to responding better to actual penetrative sex.

Good luck!