Wives over 50

Come on.. You think older couples don’t know about lube? Or that I’m that cruel? lol Two things.. Velvet , then leather glove

No younger stuff here.. Not even looking. But I bet I would fall head over heels for one. Then, statistically, loose half of everything again..

“Sticking it out with someone who is neglectful of our needs seems extremely selfish, self centered”

What? How is “Sticking it out” “selfish, and self centered” ?? FU
Ditching her in the 80’s would have been “selfish, and self centered”.

I would call it.. Idiotic.. I missed my kids. and listening to my coworkers say.. “its cheaper to keep her”

well, I can afford it now..

You miss understand. Selfish and Self Centered on HER part. I question sticking it out with anyone who doesn’t contribute positively to the relationship. I think that is the basis for most divorces.

I don’t think: “For Better or Worse” includes the loss of Love. Any woman who turns into a perpetual Bitch is not a marriage partner. They are Self Centered individualists.

The mother of my children had a book called bitches and the men who love them. I read it in one sitting, as it was written for 12 year olds, and couldn’t believe that such women thought this was a way to treat a man, but apparently there are me that are broken enough that they need this sort of “leadership”.

I wan’t one of those men.

What kind of leadership? On who’s part? The woman’s? Does this concept fit with menopausal changes?
It seems if a guy buys into this kind of woman then they are a match. It’s when things change in the relationship that’s the issue here I think.

There are men who need absolute bitches to dominate them. The book I mentioned clearly indicates that for women so inclined, and encourages them to look for totally broken chumps that they can boss around non-stop.

http://www.whym … ovebitches.com/

The mother of my children took this a gospel on how to all of a sudden gain the upper hand in our relationship, that was failing on all fronts. She even rounded on me one afternoon for calling her "love". At first I was shocked to the core, but then realized this was some sort of contrived stormtrooper tactic that she had heard from a friend, read in a book, or seen on oprah.

Her strategy failed as it made me really sit up and notice who I was now living with and raising children with. Pretty soon after that little power play I took up residence on the couch in my office, where I stayed until the day I moved out.

She now has the chump she searched the kingdom for, and as soon as my youngest boy hit’s sixteen, she will move into the new castle he bought just recently. (He is not allowed to have contact with my child as a minor, as he assaulted the boy and is on record with the children’s aid), long story, but typical of such grossly disfunctional women that try to win the game without learning to deal with their own shit first.

As to why I was with her; I was truly fucked-up from an alcoholic father, my mother’s death and my first marriage ending in disaster that I openly accept responsibility for.

Whew! I’ve been married a couple of times and this one lasted over 30 years but has turned for the worst sense the change. 5 kids all grown now and out of the house. So all I’ve got is her and she is very difficult to deal with. Not the most pleasant of environments to live in.

If I didn’t have my business so integrated into the home we have and was able to move it, I’d be gone. Plenty of women looking for companionship out there.

You guys have to look uo my posts all over the place. I went through for a long time. Things are so much better. I stuck it out.

This is from another thread tntjockey - When is penis size too big & counterproductive?. I will give you more.

Sorry for repeating this but I was did not have time when editing my previous post.

You guys have to look at my posts all over the place. I went through it for a long time. Things are so much better. I stuck it out.

This is from another thread tntjockey - When is penis size too big & counterproductive?. I will give you more.

Here is another post.

Well guys, I’m back. A week and a half ago Ms tnt had her female organs removed. after the surgery the doctor came out to talk
to me and my sons. She told us that she removed everything but left the one ovary in. I got so fucking pissed. I told her, you were
in there, why did you not remove everything? Her response was, “We do not want her to go into full blown menopause, do we”? My
response was “Fuck yeah we do, you have no clue what me and my son’s have been through.” Her response was that we males just
don’t understand the female body.

Here’s more.

So, a couple of days before her surgery I went to the grocery store to buy groceries of course. I bought a lot of fruit, apples, bananas and peaches.
So a couple of days after her surgery she asked me to go down stairs and get her a peach, so I go to the frig and find that the grand kids ate all the
fruit, all of it. So I run upstairs and tell her, her reply was with a look of disappointment, “oh!”. I grab my keys and I tell that I will get her more fruit.
I buy a lot more apples, bananas and peaches. I fix a fruit bowl for her of the apples, bananas and peaches, I run upstairs and put near it her bedside. I get
a rinsed peach and hand it to her and she asks if she can have a plum instead. So I am off to the store again, this time I buy plums, grapes and strawberries.
I get home rinse everything and place them in the fruit bowl and I hand her a plum and she tells me that she does not feel like eating fruit any more. The
only thing that I can think is it is that fucking ovary that the fucking doctor left in her. Things are much better now. Last night I took her out to dinner
and afterwards a short walk in the park, then Baskin Robbins for ice cream. We got home she took a shower and fell asleep. I then drank a lot of beer.

Guys, she is a sweet girl, but when she is ill, she turns in to a big baby or a naughty spoiled kid. Dam it, she burned me out. Her friend Anna has been
staying with her as she did the first surgery. Just venting.

Here’s more.

Thanks all, Yeah, she went and saw her doctor and was given a hormone patch and the pain went away.
My son,s and their families came over yesterday to cook for us, as we were eating, Ms tnt filled her fork with
food, her arm flinched and it shot across her head, She also flinched food in her face. Her body kept flinching.
We called her doctor whom gave us her cell number told us not to worry but to see her first thing in the morning.
That night Ms tnt kicked my ass with her flinching while we were sleeping till we argued who was going to
another bedroom. I went to sleep on the couch in our bedroom. In the morning, she saw her GYN and was given a
stronger hormone patch and stopped the flinching.

I have to address my last post, yeah she is stubborn, but she has always been, I was just burned out when i posted.
She has become so super cool like the girl I married, I can not believe it, but I thank God for her return to me.
Husbands really have to understand menopause, because this is where most marriages end. I see the light at the
end of the the longest darkest tunnel ever. Jenny told me yesterday as I was leaving to go to work, thanks for hanging
around. That was really cool, awesome, made my whole fucking day, because of that, I had so much energy.

She is still recovering and she still has bad nights, but my son’s
have started to comer over and stay with her at night so that I
can get a little sleep. I had mentioned to them that I was
so tired that I was having a hard time keeping my eyes open at work.
Things are getting better.

You know all, you all have been so awesome, thanks for your conserns and responses. I don’t even know what you
look like, but it all works. So wierd, I talk to some friends about this at work and I see their expressions as they comfort me
and it seems it is not truly their, I don’t know. Oh well, as life goes on, right?

This is years of posting.

I remember TNT.

My wife is now back to camping out in the guest bedroom again.

Not a peep since April, and now one argument and bang, I’m an assailed and it’s over.

I have had similar experiences as some have mentioned previously in this thread.

My first marriage ended with the death of my wife after 35+ years. Our sex life was great. She went through menopause without much difficulty. Our lovelife stayed just as strong until she became quite ill.

I remarried after her death. The woman I married this time, I found out later had been divorced twice before I sued for divorce. After a couple of years of marriage she attempted to become “a controller.” This was something which I was not going to put up with.

I could write much more, but I will not go into it.

Just my 2 cents worth.

I just helped a Client through a situation like that where he was dating a girl who found out he was to inherit a substantial amount of money and she became increasingly controlling.