Hello loafrath.
Are you suffering anything psychologically?
I think you might have sexual performance anxiety.
The first time I had sex I felt this anxiety that I would suck and and I sure did. I ejaculated twice in less than 5 minutes(with a condom on) and then the sex was over… I know it was
my first time but I didn’t want sex to always be 5-10 minutes. This anxiety hurt my ED and I began thinking my dick was small because the girl who I lost it to didn’t moan or make any noise well she told me to go faster and I came so easily without making her cum. I felt pathetic and masturbation became difficult for me.
I wanted to change. I wanted to be a sex warrior. I daydreamed of fucking girls with a huge cock making them cum and worship my sex skills (I know sounds silly right!!) One day I decided to embark on this quest to become the sex warrior. I found this and I gathered lots of info but I didn’t become a member. I read lots of stuff about sex and how to become a better lover. Then I learned about a powerful technique called edging.
Edging was going to be the cure for my stamina issue. I realized I was addicted to masturbating and I had trained my body to cum as fast as it could for pleasure during my “jack off sessions”! How could I do this to myself! My body had a routine to cum in less than 5 minutes because that was what it was used to before I had any sex!
In order to change my pattern I had to break it. I started masturbating only once a week. I also started partly doing a newbie routine and edging (edging is where you masturbate but do not ejaculate). I started telling myself I would become this mighty sex warrior and be good at sex, scratch that I would be a sex god and women I fucked would get delivered earth shattering orgasms.
Over time I grew from a two minute man to someone who can have sex for 3 hours. I can have consecutive orgasms without losing an erections. I can deliver that earth shattering orgasm to women. I have become the sex warrior. I can fuck women and let them cum while controlling my urge to cum without a condom.
In conclusion loafrath, I think it’s in your head imo. I think you need to fix your self esteem, do PE and your EQ will skyrocket. Performance anxiety will destroy you and you will lose out in life. So look yourself in the mirror and start believe in yourself and your weapon and become the sex warrior. Believe and never give up.
Find a way to to conquer your EQ.
I believe in you.
Good Luck
First Measurement November 1 2009: EBPL 7.5
Current Measurement June 1st 2010: EBPL 8.0
Short Term Goal: 8.5 inches || EBPL Long Term Goal:9 inches EBPL