3 Weeks In, and.

Hey guys, 3 weeks into the newbie routine and here’s what I have noticed:

1) Improved flaccid hang most of the time.

Not always. I still get turtling and I still have my little dick days - but for the most part, my flaccid hang is typically bigger - only a little bit, but enough for a confidence boost. I’ve been walking around the house naked a little more, and my girlfriend loves it.

2) No improvement in morning wood - I’m getting maybe a 70% boner some mornings, other mornings I just have - and I’ll quote my girlfriend on this one - a spectacular hang.

3) A general feeling of my dick being full, heavier, plumper. Again, not all the time but often.

4) I really don’t like stretching, but I really do like jelqing.

5) My girlfriend has initiated sex every day this past week, and has been saying “oooh” a lot more during penetration. She has also lavished more praise than usual on my cock. We were sitting last night watching TV and I just decided to whip it out. She immediately said “Baby you really have a beautiful dick”. I asked her to explain, and she talked about the proportion, size and colour. She said I have a really healthy-looking cock, and confessed that she’d told her best friend how I have a really attractive penis. This was wonderful for my extremely fragile ego, but then she put her hand on my dick and exclaimed “this seems thicker!” Now, of course we all know that it should be impossible to notice a difference after three weeks of PE - but I’ve noticed it, and she’s noticed it, and she doesn’t know I’ve started doing PE. Any difference at this stage is negligible - but her reaction is telling me something’s different.

6) I want to ditch manual stretching altogether and go with jelqing 100% of the way. How do I jelq for length? What do you do differently to jelqing for girth?

7) I get extremely sexually aroused during my work out and it’s difficult for me to refrain from masturbating afterward. But here’s why I shouldn’t: If I don’t, my hang is superb for a couple of hours afterward. If I do, I turtle and don’t get involuntary erections the rest of the day the way I do if I DON’T masturbate to a finish after my routine. Ejaculation doesn’t seem at all conducive to keeping my snake swollen. This must harm growth, then, right?

8) Very concerned about discolouration from PE. Nothing yet, but my girl commenting on loving how my dick looks has me pretty worried about changing anything other than the size of it! Any tips to minimise or avoid this, or is it simply an unavoidable negative effect of PE?

Finally..

I want more girth!! Girth is everything!

Another thing I should add - whenever possible, I’m sneaking in an extra 50 jelqs here and there. Coupla extra sets a day. It’s very addictive, and I wondered if this will be beneficial to my growth or lead to overtraining or exhaustion of the penis?

So similar to my experience, though I’ve been at it a couple of months now, with about a two- or three-week break to decon in early July. But my morning wood is larger, harder, and more frequent than before I began PE.

It seems to me the general massage I’ve been doing to my suspensory ligament and to the perineum area have contributed to allowing more of the inner penis to hang outside.

Regarding masturbation, I find edging without ejaculation at the end also has a big (pun-intended) effect on the hang and overall appearance of my unit.

When I was pumping with the BathMate, early on, before I found Thunder’s Place, my dick was a little more reddish in color, and some of that has remained. I don’t want to promote that effect, but if it’s inevitable, I can live with it.

A thrilling surprise happened a couple of days ago, when, for the first time in my life, a couple of veins showed up and even stood out from the skin surface of my unit a bit. The best I’ve ever had before was being able to see a small bluish vein or two under the skin at maximum erection. For some reason, I hadn’t thought of or expected any veins to show up until I had been doing PE a long time.

Possibly a contributing factor in my EQ is the addition of ginger root and cayenne supplements in capsule form, which I learned about from this thread: From soft erection to Rock and hard EQ hidden secret (p. 12). I have not added yohimbine, but may try it in the future.

Having expected PE to be a long-term project, it has been fun to discover some early gains, even if they are temporary. The fact they are mostly flaccid gains makes them a confidence booster for me, as sex with an erection isn’t as embarrassing as having a partner see my previously tiny flaccid unit before or after sex.

Coincidentally, or maybe not, after being celibate for many years, I’ve been recently hit on by several people, most notably from a guy about my age, a woman a little younger and a 20-something man. I can only guess I’m emitting some kind of unconscious increased sexual confidence, because I’ve done nothing I know of to encourage invitations to have sex with me, and particularly the woman and the young man were total surprises.

I hope this doesn’t look like I’m trying to hijack your thread, Spamjavelin. Really I just want to acknowledge the similarity in my experience to what you have described. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

PE is awesome.

Hey But I Bet The Compliments Are Nice Right

My Girlfriend Grabbed My Penis And Was Like “oh My God Its Much Thicker” And That Was The Best Thing Ever. She Has Said Other Compliments That Fill Me Up With Happiness

Even When We Are Intimate It Seems Like Im Getting A Better Reaction And I Feel Great

Thank You Pe

Also I’ve heard low erection jelqs are for length and high erection levels are for girth. But be warned the higher the erection the more prone to injury. I’m not saying you can’t jelq around 60-70% but higher than that you need to be more delicate. This high erection levels should also be done after have done a few months of PE too. So your unit can be more conditioned

For the color of my unit, I’ve noticed it changes color if I pump and I don’t like it so I don’t pump as much

But a small long as you don’t overtrain, I don’t think your unit should change in color (that’s noticeable maybe a small change!)

No problem here, you’re sharing your experiences which are actually somewhat similar to mine. I’m right with ya on the flaccid shame, can’t wait till that’s no longer a concern of mine. It’s improving, and so is my confidence.

I will definitely have to try the ginger/cayenne and see if it has an effect. I had tried L-Arginine capsules, but couldn’t settle on a satisfactory dose and ended up just skipping it. In the past, watermelon and pistachio nuts have had a positive effect on my EQ, but I just KNOW there has to be a supplement or combination of supplements which can supercharge my boxers. Trial and error, I guess!

As for edging - I will certainly give it a shot. My unit has remained enlarged for hours today after my session, and I’m absolutely delighted. I may or may not have sent my girl some very risqué photos.

The best things about all of this? I’m beginning to love the dick I used to previously despise.

Just tried cayenne and ground ginger-quarter teaspoon of each in warm water. I took only two small sips and I do NOT feel well. Hard to describe. A bit shaky and weird feelings in my chest and left arm. Probably didn’t help that I had already taken a L Arginine supplement about 3 hours prior. Don’t think I’ll be pursuing this one.