7x5.5 Is The New 8x6. Downsides Of Having A Huge Dick

right, ok I’ll only go for a bit more length, I’m only 7.5 on the best days at hardest so I’ll just stop at close to 8” then. Girth though needs a little work.

My question is, do you have a frequent sex partner or girlfriend? Do you satisfy her? If so, PE is great to add a little size, but more importantly have tremendous EQ for having sex all night. If she happens to be one that likes a larger dick then keep going. Don’t get to the point where you limit frequency because you’re now too big. Gains after a while are permanent. There’s no going back.

Never seen you post that.

If 7.5 NBPEL is the ideal size, then would that not mean, on average, 8-8.5 BPEL is the ideal size? Most seem to have a 0.5-1” fat pad, with some having a bit less, and some having a lot more.

My fat pad is getting smaller. I used to have 2” because I was overweight. Lost 150lbs. Now I’m 270lbs or muscle. :) I have 1.5” fat pad that’s slowly getting smaller. Been eating less fat and more protein. :)

TP helped me lose weight by the way. In case anyone is curious. :) It’s more than a PE forum.

In all my encounters all have said my size is amazing but bigger is always a little better, so that’s why I do it to an extent. Somewhat for myself and my confidence and bragging rights and then some so I can pleasure any woman well.

My 7X5.5 looks pretty impressive. I am not going bigger.

I’ve got 1” that never seems to go away, no matter what I do. I still hope to get it down to 0.5” one day, but assuming it stays at 1” I just pad all my goals by that amount. End of day, I’d like to be somewhere in the realm of 7.5-9” NBPEL, so that means a BPEL of 8.5-10”. I’m also ok if that means only half to 3/4 can go in…becoming too big in girth would be the more concerning problem imo (although I haven’t been lucky in that department yet).

Phoenix, When I post about ideal size, I am posting that size can accommodate most women. I am also posting that you will still be able to ball to the wall, get those great blow jog ans have anal sex. It took my wife years to get used to my new size, but our sex life has changed huge. I can no longer go balls to the wall or grinding since I hit her cervix and causes her pain. Sometime while receiving blow jobs I feel a tooth and that is no fun. I get no more anal sex from my wife. A larger size can limit sex. That is what I getting at.

Think 8” length is too much?

No man can tell you that information unless you’re having sex with one. Only your partner will be able to tell you if it’s too much. I would err on the cautious side.

Gotcha, titleist if you don’t mind me asking why did you start PE? If I had that girth I would be happy with it. Not trying to be rude just wondering your reason.

I think you are preaching to the choir here but I completely agree with you. Ego takes over the goal of trying to achieve the perfect size for pleasurable sex for your partner. That extra half an inch gets pushed further and further until you feel superior and at that point it doesn’t matter if the sex is good or not, as long as there’s that ego boost that says ”it’s too big”. I can only imagine how people with 3 - 4 inches feel as they are actually trying to achieve something they can pleasure their partner with, something average +ers take for granted. It’s important to keep a realistic perspective, don’t do this to boost your ego, dick size shouldn’t be defining confidence.

I have read this thread with quite a bit of interest, and although I am relatively new here and have posted very little, I would like to share my thoughts on the subject.

I’m 54 years old, and still have my urge to make size gains, truth is I don’t need any and am very happy with what have- which one would think is my size, quite a bit above average (and for that I am thankful,) but more importantly for my beautiful partner who is hopefully my life mate. Now this lady is extremely sexy and when turned on, I have it all. However..
Most of the time she is not turned on due to pressures of work, daily grind etc etc, and being a Sicilian Catholic she is unlikely to give out more than once a week. She has not had many partners (I have had many) and by all accounts she is still quite frightened of me when I am aroused. Going back even ten years before we met I was less lengthy an a little less girthy, and I know with confidence I would have satisfied her just as much with a size the same as her previously lovers.

PE has it’s place, I still practice regularly, but partly because I don’t get sex as often as I would like (this is her “issue” and not mine, previous partners have been extremely forthcoming in that area, and so I turn to a blend of PE/self pleasuring to get by. I love my partner dearly and the thought of straying just to get penis adoration kudos seems like the ultimate form of self depreciation to me.

But that’s my point. It’s all about what’s going on in one’s head, and truthfully, unless you are below average then one should be putting zero effort into self depreciation and maximising the development of a positive mindset. I would take a bet that women are secretly worrying far more about the size of their tummy, arse, breath, technique and if you will hang around to daylight than how long your todger is, than whipping out a tape measure! Confidence is the biggest thing one needs to carry into the bedroom. All this crap about ideal size is quite frankly ridiculous, and I can tell you that my partner would have trouble accommodating a pencil unless she has had a few glasses of wine, but when she is ready to “go flying” she suddenly forgets about my potential to cause hurt and I have to just smile to myself as suddenly she is a couple of sizes bigger, and that is the key, understanding that women are actually created to function this way and NOT letting it get you down!
There are plenty of ways you can get larger, it requires persistence, determination, and a positive mental attitude. I personally feel that for someone who is 5-6-7-8 inches erect, and could add reasonable length, are the ystill going to go on about the ideal size being “X,” or are they going to formulate a new value for X so they can keep beating themselves up over it?

My exwife had several affairs. She said it was due in part to my penis size. We discussed it after the divorce. I also started to help reduce my premature ejaculation issue. I continue to PE with my new wife’s approval.