A few questions specific to this newbie.

So I started PE a while ago and then quit. My story is that I am waiting to have sex until I’m married but mess around quite a bit doing whatever else.

Since my first experiences with girls they’ve told me I’m not small and bigger than average (at age 14). But over the last 5 years (I’m 24 now) I feel like I’ve gotten significantly smaller without gaining much weight. I’m the same height I was in eighth grade and vividly remember it being almost at my belly button in high school. Now it is not that close at around 6” after starting jelqing 3 days ago and not real thick. I’m definitely a grower/shrinker: If I run in the winter it disappears if I take a hot shower it drops down quite a bit.

Reason to start again: New girlfriend and I were having a nice make out session when it switched to her pleasuring me, she got frustrated and said “It just never gets any bigger.” Earlier in the day she told me how she had a boyfriend that was just huge and I think she might have had sex with him. So I feel like I want to get bigger to try and guarantee pleasure.

QUESTIONS:

I have a very vertical penis when erect. There is a lot of tension trying to pull it down, enough that she doesn’t like giving head from below and would rather lay on my stomach. It feels better when it is more horizontal or even facing down and personally I think it gets bigger. For a starter routine I am doing the jelqing every other day and some stretching. I also am considering the vacextender. Would weights be a better option given the vertical nature of things? Is there anything different to try because of the vertical state of things?

I am a newbie myself so best of luck in your quest. From what you’ve stated it doesn’t sound like you have begun the newbie routine ( I could be misreading). This would definitely be the best place to start before you start getting into weights, vacextender, pump, etc. I can personally tell you that I am already seeing some minor gains after just a couple of days on the newbie routine. As for the vertical nature of your erection, someone correct me if I’m wrong, but manual stretching may help. If you continually stretch the ligaments that holds the penis upright the result would be a lower hanging penis. This is my thinking. I would like to see someone else chime in though. Like yours my erection gets pretty high but not quite vertical. My recommendation would be looking at the pics/videos of manual stretches in the newbie section and possibly use pulls straight down, down and left, down and right. These are the three that I am using and it appears to be working already. I hope this was of some help

Yes GettinIt, manual stretches help alot for flaccid gains.

Start out on the newbie routine first bro. Don’t even get the thought in your head of taking the fast way, it ends up being the looong route. Start out with light jelqs and stretches. If you keep with this girl, not saying you won’t, for a few months…you’ll both be a lot happier. Find out what you LOT is. For emphasis on stretches that’d work better for you.

I already started the newbie routine. I’m just at a place careerwise and living alone where I know if I spend the 150 on a vacextender I would use it. If I get hitched and get a more time consuming job, both of which will happen, then I won’t.

Ram, nice gains!

If it’s my understanding you have a better chance for gains if your penis is straight up. Doesn’t that mean the ligs and everything is good in tight so when you stretch and pull down you will gain more and the ligs and such will drop lower?

That is my understanding too. Any other input?

I recommend the newbie routine for few months before using any mechanical device. 6” is a great starting stat.

I’m sorry… but any fucking girl that criticizes your penis by saying “it just never gets any bigger” (although im not quite sure what her intentions of that statement were?) does not deserve you. I’m sorry… penis size is purely psychological, unless you are at the extremes, there will be no real difference in sex. If there’s a 6 inch girth and a 5 inch girth, the 5 incher will be able to begin pleasing the girl right off the bat, and the vagina conforms and sticks like glue to what you put in it. The 6 inch may have definitive different feeling at first when going in, but the vagina will stretch and be just as tight around that penis as it is around the 5 inch penis.

Like I said…. your woman is obviously suffering from societies views that “bigger is better” I guess but there are no physiological advantages in having a bigger penis to please your woman, and if its big enough to stretch her out, then nothing wrong with that, but that persons no better then the next, only problem is its going to take the woman a longer time to get used to it. Yall stop tuggin ur dicks so much and start usin em more.

Penis size insecurity is a complex that is hard… HARD to break, but the trends change. There has not always been an emphasis on large penis, thats just the trend today. Painters and artists viewd smaller penises as more beautiful back in the day therefore a woman, due to societies views would most likely opt for a “more beautiful” smaller penis. Now woman suffer the same changes, society says we want skinny, although back in the day society viewd skinny tan girls as trash and plump pale woman as beautiful. Find a woman that loves you for what you got. Tell her to love it like its the best one shes ever had… or leave it. I repeat, there is no physiological evidence that a larger penis does any better than a smaller one, within a given range.

I’m not saying a 3 inch penis feels the same as a 10 inch penis. I’m merely stating, turn the lights off guys if you’re that worried, cus that bitch won’t know the difference if she can’t see it cus it’s truly in her mind. And if you guys would stick with one woman and let her attach emotionally, and work with that, you can make her cum 3 seconds before you put your dick in. Sex is 80 percent emotional and 20 percent physical in my experiences, which varies depending on her mood. Although this is all said, and is definately true, the penis insecurity will go on, I myself have it sometimes which is totally natural, but I don’t forget the facts stated above.

I agree.

if she’s critsizing your dick size, i agree she doesn’t deserve you, that’s just plain wrong

Please use capitals for ‘I’ and at the start of a sentence.

Rongurl, please avoid the use of ‘cus’ for because.

Thanks.

Graf, concentrate on the downwards stretches and jelqing. Good luck with your gains.

Rongurl is totally right, Lights off and she won’t know the difference. I, myself have a 6” right now and when I had sex with my first girlfriend(both virgins) she said my penis is huge the day after. Even if she had nothing to compare it to. It’s always good to warm a girl up with foreplay, most the time that makes her blow better then donging her.

Thanks guys, she wasn’t trying to make me feel bad, just all the anxiety and a shitty handjob meant I wasn’t near my 6” and we’re working stuff out I hope.

I bought the vacextender, figured an investment will keep me accountable. I did have a couple capillary purple spots yesterday so I’m into two off days to relax.