A first timer.

Hi guys, I’ve been a member here for a while; this was gonna be one of my summer projects. I just started college though, and I had trouble making time for everything, so what started (for about a week or two) as serious PE fell down to occasional kegeling when I remembered to do it.

Anyways, I just followed the newbie routine for the first time in months, basically rigidly. I had no lubricant handy, and it’s really cold out, so I did it dry.
I have a couple probs - during initial wrap, I go to basically 100% without much stimulation. I have to wait a couple of seconds, maybe a minute at least before it shrinks a bit, so that stretching was safe. Even while stretching, it goes back to 100% very easily, and I have to wait between stretches. Is this problematic or less effective?

I was sort of confused by the video stretchvideo. Straight-forward as it was, I wasn’t sure which direction I should concentrate on, and what constitutes too much pressure.

When I got to the jelq (dry), I was again sort of at a loss. How long should the kegel at the end of the jelq be held? Should I ever completely let go (for example to switch hands/grips? Should I even be switching hands/grips). Also, being circumcised and having ~5in. To work with, it recommended me to use the C grip. Should that be the only grip I use (or should it be used exclusively when dry)? I’m gonna go wet from now on, as it seems I can’t afford to risk dry.

A little after the second wrap, the penis went completely flaccid, but even moreso - it was (and is - this happened ~.5hr ago) limp as a noodle, can’t kegel worth a damn right now. Also, the skin on now has ridges, like Ruffles potato chips. Is this normal, or does this mean the skin has been stretched too much, or the grip too hard?

Alright, thanks very much, you guys, for your time.

Cheers
Eli b.

(And please, please don’t try to lecture me on the search function, as every Internet forum in existence does. I had this info fresh in my mind, I wrote it down, and I’m not gonna search for an hour before posting just for completeness sake, not right now. Sorry if this is hostile, but I am SO not in the mood.)

If you’re not in the mood to find your own answers, why should we be in the mood to help?

Sorry if thats hostile, but…..ya know.

Slack:
Because these are questions that are simple to answer and should not require a ridiculous search with several different versions of the same word to find a very small piece of information that may or may not be accurate. I want an answer for my penis, not for someone elses.

Listen, if you don’t answer me, and I’m forced to search, I will. But at the very least, could you lay out some helpful search terms so I could do it without killing the rest of my afternoon? Thank you, kind sir(s). (Are there any women who frequent this site? Can’t see the point, least not for most.)

Your dick has to get used to non-sexual touching. Let the erection subside, carry on. Repeat. It gets better with time.

Stretch enough to stretch the ligs. You dont need to pull ridiculously hard. Do all directions.

Use whatever grip is comfortable to jelq with. The kegel at the end of a jelq stroke is not a necessity, but if you choose to do it, it only needs to be a quick flex, to force a little more blood in, thus increasing expansion.

Yes, there are several women members.

That help?

Thanks very much Slack, appreciate it. Also thanks for not making a total ass out of me (didn’t read your sig the first time).

And these questions should be answered 10 times a month?

Gee, bilditup, that’s what I, did! You know, I feel like such a fool for not just sitting around, and demanding that someone give me an answer that may of may not be accurate, rather than searching them out for myself.

GM

Don’t worry, if theres a next time, I will ;)

Sounds like you dried the poor bastard out! Especially when dry jelqing, I like to make good use of lotion and/or an A&D ointment type product at least once daily. This is quite important in the winter months if you’re up north. Cold = lower humidity etc. I find that applying lotion daily after the shower and nightly (while jelqing, usually. ;) ) Some time before bed helps to keep the cock-skin quite healthy.

Alright guys, thanks again. My apologies for being hasty or hostile, again, this has not been my day (outside of the first PE exercise that is), not by a long shot (and the prospect of being lectured to search, listening to that advice, and then subsequently getting lost in the search for the rest of the day was too much - again I didn’t notice Slack’s sig.) So let’s just let the buck stop here. Truce?

Truce, yes, but don’t use “its not been my day” as an excuse. There are people who have far worse days on a daily basis than you, I can almost guarantee that.

No prob, bild: just remember that without visual or audible clues to go on, our communication here can easily be mis-interpreted… good luck with the routine, and keep in mind that PE is a long-term project that requires some measure of consistency for results!

GM