A number of questions, experienced responders wanted

I have a couple of questions that I haven’t been able to find answers for..

1) What is the ‘glans’ ? The tip or the bottom of the penis?

2) How hard (tight) should jelqing be done? How can I tell when it’s at the proper tightness? To start? As more experience is gained?
Note: By this I mean how tight should I wrap my fingers, not how erect should I be.

3) Does jelqing ‘against the curve’ mean that the C grip clipped (that is, the fingers making up the C grip touch) on the opposite of the curve?

Let me explain this one further. My dick curves to the left (when looking from above). I’ve been told to ‘jelq against the curve’. Does this mean I should use my left hand in a C grip (like, |=, looking down, where | is the hand and = are the two fingers, not completely closed in the drawing). Or does it mean that I should be moving my hand, while jelqing, from left to the right - in effect, with the dick pointing to the right?

4) My foreskin is pretty loose, a result of masturbating without lubricant (foreskin instead) as a matter of fact since I first hit puberty. How can I make it tighter? And, when I start, should I pull all the foreskin back and hold it with another hand while the other hand jelqs (lubricated jelq)? Or should I just try to ignore the loose foreskin and go on top of it?

Answers really appreciated, especially to #3. I haven’t been able to figure that one out, despite a lot of people posting in response to it.

Thanks

1. Glans, commonly referred to as the head ergo the tip.

2. Don’t cut off circulation, or go numb. Both are bad. Firm grip but not tight.

3. Jelq against the curve. Ok, if the curve goes to the left, you will want to jelq in such a manner as to attempt (and only attempt) to straighten the penis sorta. So your jelqing hand should actually be your right hand so that the tissues move right. Did that make sense?

4. Don’t have a clue. One of the other fellas will be along to answer that one.

Just so you know, I am a female, or I was this morning and don’t think anything’s changed ;) , but I do understand quite a bit and usually give fairly decent advice. And when I am wrong, and it does happen, the fellas will correct both of us. That is how I learn as well. Welcome to Thunders!

3. Jelq with the left side of your grip ahead of the right side. Jelq so you are placing more pressure on your left side. Long hold stretching and hanging should help, because the shorter side will stretch first.

4. Loose skin is good, don’t worry about it. work on filling it with more dick.

Thanks for your replies.

I’m still having problems understanding 3), the one about ‘jelqing against the curve’.

Should I be using my right hand, or my left? Or should I alternate? If someone could elaborate on their responses, or illustrate it somehow, it would be immensely helpful! I don’t want to do it wrong!

Thanks.

Edit: Oh, to momento or others, do you think then that I should pull my foreskin back with one hand while jelqing with the other? Or just let it get in the way?

1) The tip, the head of the penis.
2) 40-60% erect for newbies.
3) It means, if your cock curves to the left, you jelq in a curved motion to the right.
4) Just jelq away. As for tightening it, no idea.

>Edit: Oh, to momento or others, do you think then that I should pull my foreskin back with one hand while jelqing with the other? Or just let it get in the way?<

Do what works for you but if you can get pulling the foreskin back into your strokes you are less likely to get turkey neck.

The system I used was this:

1. Jelq forward with first hand to the glans
2. Just before reaching the glans with the first hand, grip loosely with second hand on around mid shaft.
3. Quickly release the first hand enough for skin to be pulled through the grip
4. moved the second hand to the base carrying the skin
5. Grip to a standard tightness with the second hand and let go with the first hand.

This is quite a complex movement but when you get used to it, it can be done quickly, smoothly and without losing the buildup of blood from the previous stroke.

You might find it hard to keep up for a whole session. If so try switching to just letting the skin bunch, maybe switching to upper angle jelqing at the same time.

You can normally feel when you are stretching the small area of skin where the penis meets the body.

If turkey neck doesn’t bother you, just let the skin bunch up :)

Have you watched the demo videos? If you watch the Jelq videos and Jelq along, a lot of the answers will become clearer- it’s hard to describe in words what you want to know, although mem and others have done it quite well.

Personally as I am cut I can’t really speak to your foreskin issue, but I only dry Jelq as I have loads of extra shaft skin unless I am at 100%+ erect.

Don’t worry so much about getting it precisely correct right out of the box- it’s kind of like learning to drive- the manual and the training videos are not a substitute for actual wheel time. Start gently Jelqing and stretching along wit the demos and get to know your wiener, then you’ll actually be able to work out all the answers :)

Interestingly I’ve never been one for lube when flying solo- which is perhaps the reason for all that extra skin?

;)

Luck and length