Hi, I’m new to the forum and this is my first post,
I’ve been doing alot of researching and experiencing in Kegels, multiple orgasms and of course PE,
and from what I’ve come to understand…
Kegels strengthen and develope the PC muscle, this will also form more and better blood flow to the genital area which aids in erections. With sex however, I find that kegeling will actually make you blow your load faster, and I believe this is because the fatigue of the PC muscle is what triggers ejaculation. Therefore if you can strengthen this muscle with kegels, and then learn to keep it relaxed during sex, it will not fatigue as quickly and you will last as long as you want, then when you wish to ejaculate, sqeeze the PC and you will find it amazingly pleasurable and cum shortly after.
When it comes to multiple male orgasms however, these are different from what we’ve learned to experience from an ejaculation. I’m still new to this, and have only experienced this a few times, what I would describe as a full body eroctic almost trance like experience, which even after it’s over can last over an hour after like your floating on a cloud. What men are just now learning is that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same, our ejaculations which are still very good because they include a partial orgasm which leads to the ejaculation physical reflex. What true multiple male orgasms are is learning to experience the orgasm and let it move through our whole body (like women who are luckly enough to naturally acheive them easier.) This orgasm can then last for like 15min straight up to like hours, and it’s what tantric sex practices are based on. So if we can train ourselves to not just go for our known several second ejaculatory orgasm, we can experience and reach sexual extacy for hours. Now of couse this is easier said then done, and it takes alot of work and intent, but that’s my goal, to be able to reach that state in every sexual experience, not only because you can rock a girls world, but it’s one of the most amazing experiences in life!
I may post some more on the subject if you guys are interested, my first experience with MMO was a technique where you don’t even touch your penis at all, it just uses breathing and kegeling. It blew my mind how I could have and erotic experience without even touching my penis or having an erection! This experiencing is important though, because you need to experience it this way before you can achieve it from your penis without the ejaculation reflex kicking in.
What are your guys’ experiences with Kegels and staying power? What have you noticed? What do you do to last longer?
These reverse-kegels are new to me (other than for peeing), but I have read of the technique of trying to pee during sex to delay ejaculation. But if reverse-kegels are simply to keep the PC relaxed, then why not just focus on relaxing the PC rather than trying to FORCE relaxation?