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Hey guys,

I just registered to the forum, altough I have been visiting before. First of all I would like to say that you are doing an awesome and noble job, you reach out a solution for many unforunate men who are suffering from a problem that inflicts their self-esteem en social life (like myself) I think every male who has been “unfortunate” would do almost ANYTHING to even that.

I never committed to PE 24/7 as is recommended. I think when I started out my BPEL was 12.5 cm, (4.9 Inch.) Girth was about 12 cm (4.7 inch). I did some PE in the shower now and then and after a while I started noticing changes. I measured again and what do you know, I grew to 13.7 cm (5.3 Inch.) And 13 cm (5.1 inch) in girth. Although I realize my penis is still very small (below avarage), But I knew that PE could change my life. So now I’m back but more committed then ever.

So back to my point. When I read the forum and the stats of all the members on the site I feel a bit frustrated. I know I have a problem down there, but I feel like I’m the only one. All the starting stats of the members on the site are about 6” or 6.5” BPEL! And people are still complaining! :P

“I’m like wow! Thats like my Ultimate goal!” Pretty frustrating, I can’t understand why, when you are already waaay above average. Offcourse everyone should do as they wish, and I won’t bother no one with that. But consider this post as a shout out to guys who are like me, to share your experience! Because Its not the same to read PE experiences of guys who start off PE at 6.5 “BPEL. Because its easier to gain when you have more meat to work with!

Wow don’t you just love the “fair” world we live in.

Do a search, the same topic comes up pretty often.

On the one hand, guys who start smaller can come to understand that the desire for a big dick happens in the head. So no matter how big you start, the emotional and mental reasons for wanting to PE are the same as guys who started smaller. Also, starting at just about 5 inches, someone starting at 4 could look at you and say the same thing - 5 inches might be their dream dick.

On the other hand, guys who start bigger can be (and generally are) sensitive to the fact that their “problem” isn’t bad at all relative to guys who had less luck in the genetic lottery.

Edit: Meant to add, welcome to the forum, good luck with the gains!

Welcome Garudo. It’s true that smaller guys are more likely to be lurkers. It’s also true that we have a lot more regular lurkers than regular posters! :)

I started at 5 7/8” and the pain of feeling small was equal to yours.

We try to be as careful as we can with others with this issue, but occasionally we may step on toes, and for that I personally apologise.

Welcome to thunders and good luck in all your efforts.

Well, I’m also from Netherlands and my starting stats are more or less similar to yours. Just be consistent and be patient. And yes, good luck with PE.

Garudo,

Check my stats bro, we have almost twins for ding-dongs. lol. My goal here is to make MY sex life better by making MY ding-dong better. Let’s face it your ding-dong is a major part of your sex life but not the only part. And by better I mean harder, bigger, stronger erections, and improved overall genital health and just getting more enjoyment from it. I’m also diabetic so I’m working to preserve my sexual ability for the rest of my life. I’ve never been a drinker or a smoker so I’ve never had ED (knocking on wood…mine coincidentally) and I hope never have it now.

The guys here, big and smaller, are all just empowered men taking their sexual health into their own hands (pun intended! lol) and doing it for themselves. Our motivation to start may here been insecurity but our continuing PE is driven by the very real improvements we’ve made for ourselves. I’m not doing this only for the wife or how I’ll look in the shower at the gym. Hell, your wife or girlfriend may be not be there tomorrow but either way your ding-dong will still be there with you. And why SHOULD I give a damn about what some dude at the health club thinks? Right? I mean at some point I had to just say fuck what anyone else thinks of my ding-dong. It’s just me & him for life so we gotta work to make each other better regardless.

Yeah I notice a lot of smaller guys don’t post often but I think they should. We’re all in the same boat and anonymous so what does it matter anyway. Speak up dudes. Share your experience. Lend your support as well to others as we’re doing for you right now.

Good luck and good gains bro! Keep at it!

Thanks all for replying!

Haha Donttazemebro, you should become a motivational speaker bro ;) But you’re right man. It sucks you have diabetes. I haven’t been dealt a great hand of cards in life either. I have Colitis Ulcerosa. After all health is the most important thing that counts. Its just the combination and amount of fysical limitations/setbacks that causes frustration.. If PE can help me just solve this little problem, its just one problem less.. But tell me, how are your gains so far? Seen any results? Please share your routine

Since we all share a same goal on the website (and also since its anonymous) its not a big issue to talk about it. Because it is in real life. The website is pretty much self explanitory. You can learn enough about PE reading without registrating. I was a lurker myself ;) But I was starting to feel more and more frustrated after seeing only”big guys” replying on the forum.

But hey, since I’ve seen some results I’ve chosen to be a part of this community. I hope to reach my goals soon enough, and maybe one day people that are in the same position as we are will read this and will be inspired by it..

For now, its game on!

Welkom!

Kunnen we als Nederlanders misschien geen eigen topic starten? Ik ben ook een newbie en communiceren gaat mij toch het beste af in mijn moedertaal.