Am I an idiot for wanting a bigger penis?

If you’re an idiot, I’m a bigger idiot. PE has been all positive for me: better middle-age penis health, even better sex and probably some added “confidence” from gains and just knowing what is possible. Only downside is that I am bummed I don’t have the time any more to go for more gains.

Little addendum: you may want to consider viewing the idea of enlarging your penis as a science project merged with a journey of personal discovery; almost certainly will you grow…likely will your penis too.

xeno

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I like that idea! I guess I’ll just try it then :)

Funny how some things are so consistently seen here by the guys who have been around a long time:

1. Guys who just want to see if it’s possible, who are fairly happy with their size regardless of what it is, and have an inquisitive attitude to PE tend to stick with it and gain. Guys who ‘need to grow an inch before Christmas’ don’t.

2. Guys who claim to be very large want to mention it (boast or put down smaller guys) in most of their posts, but are rarely willing to post a measured photo with their name on it. Guys who are very large often have signature lines with a link to their measured photos, but rarely mention their size in posts, unless it is necessary to the topic of the post.

3. Guys who are here to help others, who are valuable members, rarely ever mention their size at all unless it’s pertinent to the post, and they focus their answers on the question, not on themselves. In the process, they grow and come to understand more about themselves and others.

4. The serious guys realise that they are doing this for themselves firstly, because sex feels better to them with a larger penis, and for women secondarily. The guys who just want to ‘dominate a woman with their dick’ usually fall away from PE.

xxlwannabe, your posting ‘attitude’ suggests you will be one of the guys who will be consistent and gain and be a good member of the community to have around here. I wish you well with your PE journey. :)

Thank you firegoat! I will post a couple “start” pictures as soon as I have the tools (proper ruler and a better camera around) and, most importantly, get myself checked on a couple little hard bumps I got appearing on my shaft (spelling? Not native english speaker, sorry). Let’s see where this leads to.. ;)

Your English is probably better than a lot of native speakers. :up:

Firegoat and Xenolith, I’m curious to know how PE changed your lives. Besides that obvious growth, how did PE helped you grow as a person? What did you learn about yourself?

I’ll jump on this one. I realized I could accomplish the impossible! And I realized I could help lots of other guys who suffered the way I had by providing clear, simple, hype-free instruction, meanwhile keeping my real-world ego in check (and occasionally my online ego). Remember, I discovered PE in 1996, when the internet was still basically AOL….

I also discovered how much I enjoyed solving problems and inventing things.

If you want to understand people, you have to understand their concerns and mental inner workings. The things people most rarely talk about in everyday life are exactly the things they talk about here. Reading many thousands of posts here has often helped me ‘read between the lines’ of what is really bothering people, and as that is an aspect of my work, it is extremely useful. The more you understand people, the more you can help them, the more you grow and the more you can help them grow. (Interpret the word ‘grow’ any way you like! :) )

My downside was I got to long and thick for my wife. Slowed down our sex life. No more deep throat blow jobs, just getting glands sucked and
no more anal sex. It is all in my thread. The wife tells my to stop PEing because sex was starting to hurt, but I continued and our relation almost
came to a hault. I no longer PE no more. I had wished to loose gains but I instantly cemented. Things between us are much better.
7.5 BPEL X 5.5 EG in my opinion is the ideal size. I shoulve stopped when I was there.

Tom and FireGoat, I’m impressed! I really didn’t expect to find such deep people on this website when I joined. I figured I’d get a big dick and then take off. Now I think I’ll probably stay after I reach my goals. Thank you to both of you of the insight.

Glad to be of use ;-)

I remember those days. Pre-Internet.

I was thinking yesterday that although it’d be nice to have a 8” x 6” one and belong to the 5%< of the population who can claim that, maybe I should aim for a 7” NBP which would be around 7,5BP in my case. The girth I was expecting to work it all the way to 6”, though.. Would you say that is too much?