Another day, another newbie!

Greetings everyone!

I think this is my first “real” post here, since I’ve just been lurking and reading around for a while.

Seeing how supportive and nice everyone is, I decided that it’s time to join the crowd and get involved :)

So… as for me, sheesh, where do I begin? I’m 18, a college student, and of course like everyone else here, is interested in PE. I actually started looking into PE when I was 17 (naughty me!), and am very thankful I was fortunate to just stumble upon Thunder’s Place during one of my late night searches. The reason I became interested in PE is well, hmm… I bet most other guys here share the same story. Some girl messaged me over the Internet and told me, “I hear you’re not very ‘well endowed,’ if you know what I mean.” It was much more shock than anger, that I never previously considered if size ever mattered. To make a long story short, I fell into a rather bad depression, then Thunder’s, and I was happy again :)

As of right now, I am about 1 cm longer than a toilet paper tube, and cannot fit myself into it without causing minor discomfort. I really should get some tailor’s measuring tape. Anyway, I don’t know my current standing compared to other people like me, since my father is Vietnamese and my mother is German/Dutch, I can only assume that I inherited my size from my father. So… I guess it’s no surprise that I’m of below average size, but I can only turn those feelings into something positive, that drives me towards my goal.

I have only been doing PE on and off, as I live with my parents, brother, and three other relatives (yikes), so obviously there isn’t much private time. I’ve been trying out dry jelqing, and I do like it better than wet jelqing. It’s quieter, doesn’t require cleanup, and can be stopped immediatley. In the future, I plan to do some hanging, and possibly some pumping. But for now, I’m looking for a really low key workout that won’t arouse any suspicions (if anyone knows a thread with one, I’d be really thankful if you shared).

I cannot say “thank you” enough to Thunder, and to the good people who contribute here, but I’ll say thanks again, because I believe sooner or later it’ll make a very noticeable and positive change in my life.

Welcome ltv800. Thats got to be tough PE’ing in a full house like that.

I hope make your size goals.

Who was she and how did she know?

She was a girl from my French class.

How she knew… this is really weird: I had sex with someone, and they posted about it in their LiveJournal. I have a journal as well, and at the time she was my friend (not anymore, of course). Anyway… she looked at MY journal, and went to my list of friends… and she found the person I was with. From there, I don’t know what happened… If they discussed my size or not, I don’t know.

It was quite stressful, actually… She is one of those people who spreads rumors like the plague, so soon enough people at school were talking about it. Needless to say, I haven’t spoken with her since.

Geez man, that really sucks.

I bet it had to be hell, but

that sounds like a serious motivating

story if I ever heard one.

Thank you for your replies :)

It did suck at the time, but to be honest, I asked around later and it turns out most people thought it was a stupid rumor.

I just try to see the good in things, and what I can take that will benefit me… I am rather thankful that it happened, since it really woke me up.

Itv,

As you’ve worked out, you really shouldn’t worry too much about rumours like that. I had one in college as well, but mine was accompanied by pictures of my little fella in a very sorry state.

As for the PE, the first issue is privacy. Do you have any? Can you get any? Will your parents let you fix a lock to your door (you are studying hard and you can’t concentrate if people keep coming in)?

If privacy is a difficult thing to come by at home you will need to start working on stealth PE. Wake up 15 minutes early and jelq and stretch in bed. Spend 15 minutes extra in the shower and jelq and stretch. Go to bed 15 minutes early, jelq and stretch.

You need to tailor your routine to what you can do. Start gently, try to find a way to do a warm up before PE. At night go into the bathroom to wash your face and use the hot towel to warm your cock. In the morning, get up for an early pee, use a hot towel to warm your cock. In the shower wash your body first, while running the hot water over your cock, once you have finished washing, your cock will be ready warmed and ready to stretch.

Hanging and pumping certainly need a lot of privacy, plus you don’t want to have to explain what the hell your hanging gear is to your mum when she does a random spring clean (as all mums tend to do). Good gains can be made through manual work though, so don’t write them off.

That’s all for now, except to say welcome to Thunder’s, good luck and see you around. Feel free to ask if you have any more questions.

LB

Ahh, thanks LordBase.

Currently I just sleep in random places on the floor (no open rooms available), but for now, dry jelqing in bed is the best I can do. Thank you for your advice. It sounds like a good idea to just take every-day activities and turn them into short PE sessions :)

The only thing that I feel I may be doing wrong is not pulling hard enough. I don’t think I’ve ever felt the “burn” that I hear about, but I’m also really afraid of hurting him. Well, I think I will just listen to my body and stop if there’s pain. Thanks again, and good luck as well.

Go to the bathroom and do 1 minute manual stretches. One down, one up, one to each side. Grip hard so that you don’t stretch the skin, but the ligaments and the tunica. Try to check out you LOT, and do alot of stretches downwards if your LOT is high. Start out easy.

ltv,

It’s better that you stretch gently and gain slowly, rather than overdo it, damage yourself and don’t gain at all. This is especially important at the start when you are still getting a feel for PE and your dick isn’t particularly conditioned. After a few weeks you’ll know whether you can safely stretch it a bit harder.

Also Dingledangle is right. Find out what your LOT is and use it to your advantage. If you don’t know what your LOT is, read LOT 101, if you want more detail look at this.

LB

*nods* Ok good…

I’m currently trying to keep too much blood from entering my shaft while I jelq. It gets very engorged, but I do not feel any pain.

I’ll read up on the LOT 101 link you posted, and thanks again everyone for help.