Any tips for not having alot of time?

I was a student until yesterday, so I thought that during the semester (the next five months), I would have plenty of time to start the newbie routine. I have a wife and kids and privacy is an issue. I have been using an extender and light manual exercises for a few months, but not too much time on either. I found out my wife cheated on me so now I’m feeling insecure about my size. Because of that and the uncertainty of our relationship, I also took a Full-time job so I’m estimating that I might be able to devote 45min a morning to PE. Maybe some time after work to maybe do something along the lines of extending or pumping for a short amount of time.

I just measured today and am at 6.75” BPEL and 4.5” MSEG. I really want to get my Girth up to 5” for my short term goal. I’m not too concerned with length, but would like to be at 7.5”- 8” BPEL because I have about an inch of fat pad that hides a lot. I’m not fat at all and in pretty good shape, but that fat pad hides a lot.

I think 45 minutes is enough time to do the newbie routine for a few weeks. I am just thinking ahead to figure out what I am going to do after. I am currently using a lot of heat, putting on the extender for 5min at a good stretch, jelqing for about 10-12 minutes and then showering. I do my Kegels at lunch when I am sitting down. I like the idea of maybe adding a pumping routine in a few weeks, maybe after work. I have to research some basic routines for that, but I figure I would keep it simple and not over do it. I’m not one to rush results. Currently I am doing 2 days on and 1 day off.

Any words of advice or support I really appreciate. We have kids so we are working on staying together. I used to be smaller on the girth side than I am now, and notice she orgasms more frequently now that I am at 4.5”. When I am really hard, I’m sure its a slight bit more.

45 minutes is more than enough. Try to stay consistent!

Do not worry about the future. Just do what you can with the time you have. That is more important than ANYTHING else you’ll do in PE.

hey man look, the newbie routine consist in warm up,stretch and jelq.

I did my newbie routine this way: 5 min penis in glass of hot water, 10 minutes stretching anywhere you want, 10 minutes jelq. 25 minutes

Thanks, that sound similar to what I currently am doing right now. I use a cup of water to heat up and the extender to stretch, which I can put under my clothes. I usually do my routine in the bathroom and have the electric space heater running. I think with practice I can do this routine in 25-30 minutes, today It took about 45. I think I’m desensitized to porn helping me keep the right amount of erection so I find myself having to frequently get it back up.

You can dump the cheater and have a lot more privacy. I’m not making a joke about situation so I hope it doesn’t come as tho I am. I’m just being blunt

“We have kids so we are working on staying together.”

.. He’s trying to do right by his kids bro.

God bless you and your family in your situation, chris. It’s hard to forgive, and probably harder to forget, but your offspring are way too important to leave them to the whims of your spouse and whomsoever she might end up bringing around them. You’re fighting your pain for their sake.. stay strong.

Good luck,
SVP

What a selfish bitch. Just make the most out of the time you have. With minimal time I would suggest leaving the extender alone. You need to spend multiple hours a day in an extender for it to be effective.

Stick with the newbie routine for a while. Once you become accustomed to that routine you can add some extra exercises in the evening or something. But first get accustomed to the newbie routine.

Best of luck.

We have different views on what’s right for kids. I got six kids with the same women I’ve been married to for 12 years. I wouldn’t subject them to my misery if she cheated on me or the misery I’d put her through. I’m also the product of a divorce, it was best thing mom could have ever done for me. Leaving my dad was least the selfish thing she ever did for me.
As others have said do the newbie

First wife cheated four times. I stayed for the kids and then saw her behavior wasn’t changing. That’s what led me to this place.

As far as a routine, you have ample time. I like that you are heat conscious. Stick with the newbie routine.

The other day ran into this thread from waaay back on this forum.

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The guy claimed to be making impressive gains from straight jelqing for 10 minutes 5 days a week, or 20 minutes every other day.

I’m skeptical and have only been jelquing the last couple days because of a blister. I know between only like a dozen hanging sessions, 2 jelq sessions, and a few times in the pump, I’ve definitely gained girth but no length.. Yet. Overall looking much more veiny and my flaccid looks better.. No more turtle action lol.