No pressure hey! LOL
The majority of women like a dominant man in the bedroom. Someone who can take control of the situation and take what he wants.
Girls like to feel sexy and desired. A man who approaches her with assertion is telling her exactly that. That he wants her, cannot wait to have her and knows what needs to be done to make her his own.
Someone who lacks confidence may approach sex passively. Maybe he lays there and grunts expecting her to read his mind. Or maybe he just doesn’t listen or ask the right questions to his woman or is selfish in the sack.
Every woman is different. It is important to get to know what she likes. Allot of women are insecure about their sexuality and are not comfortable disclosing their likes, dislikes, fantasies and desires. Sometimes we fear that men will judge us poorly if we have a fantasy that is not considered normal.
You guys have it tough. Good luck.