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I have a question, not sure right place here or not but here it is, I had my prostate removed due to cancer by the robot, I have ED to a certain degree, currently injecting trimix. I have lost some length and girth. Can someone tell me the best way for my situation?

Edbopc I have no idea I can not relate to your situation , but I have read in the pumpers forum that gentle pumping is good for men with Ed , helps re-stimulate the nerves , increases blood flow. Have you tried a search on prostrate removal on this forum?

May I ask how old you are, and to what degree is the ED. Half erection, 3/4 erection? How long has it been since your operation?

edbopc read this, How to have raging morning wood (if you don’t already). give it a try.

The surgery was October 2012, I have been able to get maybe a 30% erection on my own here lately, I measured my length after injecting my trimix and its a whopping 5 inches,, I was longer and had more girth. I am presently 55 years old.

Yesterday I was half jelqing half masturbating and while I was fully erect I suddenly lost my erection when I reached the top of the shaft. As it quickly went down it was also bent a little . Since then the tip of my penis is a bit cooler than usual, and the WORST PART IS I Can’t GET EVEN SEMI ERECT SINCE. I can’t stop thinking that I might be screwed for life.

I saw a lot of posts from people who havent seen Improvement with this kind of injury for 2 YEARS, and some even longer.

I started to take kinko balboa and garlic and I haven’t touched it because I’m terrified of further injury.

I would appreciate ANY input from ANYONE who has had similar symptoms. Its Christmas Eve and what I need is someone to tell me the same thing happened to them and that I’m going to be okay. I can’t sleep I am so nervous.

I’m going to the urologist in a couple days and am praying for the best.

Does anyone think its; venous leak, damaged nerve or anything else. Again my penis is shriveled and can’t even get semi erect. Please help I’m 23 and scared to death

See a doctor. This is a lesson to all. Thunders Place has a section that describes all the exercises and how to do them and you are also warned not to be fully erect when jelqing.

Id suggest some LIGHT flaccid stretching and kegels. If it doesn’t improve at all in a week perhaps wrap it. I advocate washing the penis in betadine, but don’t know what that would do for an injury of this nature.

Seeing a doctor/urologist really is the best thing you can do.
I need to ask, did you feel a sharp pain or a release of some sort or any kind of breaking feeling let go as you were pulling on it?

No pain at all but yes it felt like something let loose. And everyone I’ve read about on this type of injury tried jelqing to make it better and never DID get better because of it so I’m not touching it except a heating pad I go to the urologist tomorrow. I am so nervous.

I will update for anyone that is or will be in my situation. Its like hell I want Cry almost. I just want to be able to have kids and a wife One day or at LEAST good sex again.

I recon everyone who has seriously done PE has had times when they have over-done it or got it wrong and can’t get a decent erection for a few days; if they were inexperienced and had thoughts of ‘scared for my life’ ‘so nervous and anxious’ ‘worried it’ll never work again’ or ‘it’s like hell I want to cry’ etc. they wouldn’t get any erection at all, let alone of a weak one.

For pretty much everyone who doesn’t have underlying psychological issues or who hasn’t done something really stupid to their penis, chilling out and waiting a few days usually sorts everything out just fine. The penis is a remarkably resilient organ.

You can’t fight the sad feelings that I have when your life is possibly in jeopardy. And by life I mean a real life of having a wife and kids one day. I have got semi erect each morning but nothing besides that.

It’s barely 3 days, and you are panicking - you will not get an erection while you are thinking thoughts of ‘your life being in jeopardy’. If you are getting semi erect in the mornings you are doing fine. Your erections will probably come back about the same time you stop panicking. Every long-timer here has seen the repeating self-fulfilling prophesy between worrying about not getting an erection and therefore not getting one, and many of us have been through it. Of course it will make you panic first time it happens to you, but it is highly unlikely you have caused any real damage, and it will now mostly be your panicking that is the problem.

Give it a few days, leave it alone, and stop worrying, as much as you possibly can. I only recall one person out of many thousands who has really ended up with a proper problem and who claims not to have done anything stupid to cause it, and frankly in my opinion (and I believe most of the mods and vets), he is an attention-seeker and has psychological difficulties with his penis.

Firegoat the very tip of my penis is colder than usual and is a little more white than usual. And by the tip I mean the very tip of the head. It obviously isnt helping that I’m panicking but at the same time, something must be wrong if I can’t get even a little erect from porn. There is no numbness or pain. Just flaccid. Do you think that its an important nerve that was damaged ?

If it’s just the very tip, I wouldn’t worry about it. It is possible you have ‘bruised/irritated’ a nerve - it’s quite easy to do - but that should recover in a few days.

I know exactly who you are posting about. That is so funny.