Without tooting my own horn, I had ‘mad skillz’ before PE, so I must concur with firegoat that the confidence factor is H-you-G-E when strolling about afterwards with my post-coitally fluffed flaccid swinging slowly instead of bouncing quickly.
Having her play with my flaccid is the biggest difference I’ve noted- she [writ large] seems fascinated with it and will sometimes sleep with it in her hand- never used to happen. She plays with it afterwards and almost invariably will start sucking it just because.
[PE has made me a BJ fan- prior I never really cared one way or another, but the way they all seem to be unable from worshipping it… .]
She’s constantly looking at it, as if it were a separate entity, like we’re have a threesome- me, her and my cock.
When she’s sees the box of Magnums [or LifeStyles XL- LOVE that XL on the box] on the bathroom shelf prior to our first time, it’s like I don’t even have to do anything- she’s already bought into the notion that this is what a big cock is like.
Unless they are literally size queens, they don’t really know how big you actually are. They all insist on guessing [of course I plead ignorance and a lack of a tape measure], and almost always well over 8”- I never lie about size, but I won’t argue with or confirm their guesstimation.
I’ll just use it to segue back into the saddle.
What is hot is once they’ve convinced themselves that you’re bigger, they just let themselves go and indulge the filthy little girl they wouldn’t permit themselves to otherwise be. It’s like a switch goes off on their dirty little minds that tells them it’s okay to behave like a pornchick since they perceive that they are being speared by a porn cock- after all, isn’t that why those pornchicks behave that way?
It’s kind of a chicken and egg question.
And the very hottest thing that happens is when their eyes widen a little as you tickle their CDS, almost in alarm, and they whisper to themselves ‘Oh, fuck!’- or words to that effect.
And when she places her fingers on her lower belly while you are inside, unfocused eyes slightly glazed as she tell you that you are ‘right there’.
And then there are the impromptu sexual offers of her mouth and nether regions in automobiles, restaurant restrooms, secluded doorways in major urban centers.
But that is another chicken and egg question- is she just behaving this way because your swagger gives her permission.