Cant Seem To Gain Girth
So last year i started PE with the newbie routine then proceeded to pumping and jelqing and kept that up for about 6 months til a bunch of issues in my life caused me to stop for almost 8 months. Starting up again however i have been doing alot of messing around with different women the past 6 months(was getting divorced) and i have found i am far less interested in length as maybe half of them i am getting feedback to not go too deep. But i know i can stand to gain some girth. Anyways of course with my luck the length gains came easy but i have gained almost nothing in girth.
Started pumping again past few days but i am having two issues. #1 i am not certain i can tell what is edema and what is normal expansion. And #2 I think my penis is weirdly shaped for my tube and might need to resize it to gain girth. So first of all when i started pumping i was just over 6” bpel and just under 5”. Within those 6 months i gained nearly 1” of bpel but almost nothing of girth and what little i did gain i think was more due to better EQ.
The reason i say i may have a weird situation with the pump is my head and base are much bigger then mid shaft so i quickly pack the bottom half and my head but once that happens the middle of the shaft stays the same and it just starts growing length wise. I think this is the main reason for my good length gain as its pulling in that direction far more then girth wise.
If i stay in the tube a mild to moderate time(say 2 sets one 15 mins the other 10 @5-6hg) i will grow .5cm MSEG with what i think is little to no edema as its still pretty firm just a bit fatter and feels dense. If i go harder either with more time or pressure i can get 1cm girth increase or so but i think with too much edema as it feels a bit softer and puffy. I try to avoid this. But i dont know if im going to conservative or not or why i cant seem to gain girth. I stopped pumping and when i stopped i was seeing 7-7.125” bpel 8 months later i am at 6.875” or so but girth still 5.1”. Goal is 6” MSEG and 6.5” base. Would be nice to get to 7.5” bpel but dont care if i dont gain any more there.
Should i clamp or add more manuals? Right now a routine is 15-20 mins stretching and jelqing in front of an IR lamp then 15 mins @5 to 6hg jelq and massage for 10 mins then back in the tube for another 10 @4-5hg then 5 min massage at the end. 3 on 1 off 2 on 1 off.