Cock head doesn't proprly retain blood - UNITE

I have this problem as well. I don’t know if there is any correlation but I used to masturbate to a dry orgasm when I was prepubescent too.

Does anyone have more information on the surgery or even what the name of it is?

I think it’s normal for the glans to be softer than the rest of the shaft during erection. It tends to inflate bigger with each kegel, but then subsides a bit when I release the kegel, whereas the rest of the shaft stays super100%hard. Maybe this means I have a venous leakage or something, but I doubt it — I think it’s just the way some (all, to some degree?) cocks are.

Possibly - but I think the head on most generally atleast stays ‘firm’. Mine goes quite soft, and also the general size difference is dramatic - like from 5.5 girth to 4.

Does your glans get larger during an erection, compared to its flaccid state? If so, then it’s at least retaining some blood. Mine definitely increases in size during erection, though it’s still the smallest part of my penis, girth-wise.

I’ve noticed that some porn stars with huge, well-functioning penises have a small, not-so-hard glans (e.g., a couple of the guys from Bang Bros.). I don’t think it’s big cause for concern.

Not really. For example if I get a spontaneous erection, it is quite weak and the head does not inflate at all. However, if I am wearing a cock ring it does as there is pressure on my vein that is leaking, and it therefore somewhat seals it shut. Same case once manual stimulation starts, if it involves putting pressure on said vein it will go inflated but once the pressure is relinquished it goes down.

It is not a HUGE concern. It can be easily fixed with a ring. But it still is a problem. I don’t mean to sound arrogant or closed minded but this is not just my penis responding slightly differently to others, or being unique as we all are or whatever just like some penis’s bend or angle in different ways. It is an actual malfunction, and naturally I want it permanetly corrected.

Thought I would bump this thread as I had a cavernosometry the other day. It was a very painful procedure where they injected dye into my dick and took xrays of it, to see if any blood was leaking out.

The result was a definitive NO. The test showed no leakage. This is pretty distressing, because now I have no idea what could be wrong. Still the same story, If I grip the base of my dick the head remains firm, if not it loses all its blood and a LOT of size and firmness. My erections only last for a matter of seconds if stimulation is stopped.

I am now at the end of my tether. I am thinking the test could be incorrect, since during the test they injected heaps of saline into me..and then using some instrument ‘pumped’ me up to a full erection like I’d never felt before. It felt like I was wearing a cock ring, and no blood was escaping. However, it is NEVER anything like this normally.

Each test I have had done shows I’m normal, yet my erections are as described and I never wake up with morning wood. MMMMMMM…..

In my experience, even before any PE, it’s normal for the head to not be fully engorged. Isn’t that what all the posts in this thread, and elsewhere, indicate?

Do a Uli or wear a cock ring and the head fills up completely. Maybe PE and exernal add-ons (cock rings) have spoiled you?

I found when starting the newbie routine that erection quality increased dramatically over the first few weeks. I never thought my cock was capable of such a firm erection before I began a regular jelqing regimen - it almost scared me the first couple times it got that hard, in fact. =)

You may be pleased to find that once you get into the PE “groove” you’ll start having these skin-ripping erections more frequently, including a much firmer glans. I am a generally unhealthy person, and pre-PE my glans would hardly expand at all with an erection. During sex, I’d have to say that since starting PE the glans will get to 75-90% of it’s “maximum inflation” without any kegels, squeezes, etc. If the doc says you’re okay, by all means seek a second opinion if you feel that it’s warranted, but also continue with the newbie routine for a bit and see how that does. =) Always remember that the glans is made of a different type of tissue than the shaft, and will therefore by it's very nature have a different “consistency” or feel to it.

My $.02, FWIW.

It has been like this long before P.E and long before I have tried any sex toys. I come to P.E BECAUSE of this problem. I am starting to think it could be from bike riding a lot as a kid also… who knows, who cares I guess it’s just something I am going to have to deal with. I will add to this thread if I happen to find any new relevant info

Man I just got this problem too bro. It happened to me because of using the Bib hanger. It would try to curve up like crazy when I put weight on it and the top screws put alot o pressure on the top of my dick, then it pulled the shit out of my Corpora Spongium and then it power jelqed a lot of blood to the head of my dick. My CS was hurting for like a week after that.

I think then I will go to the urologist too. I get the same thing. I fills up during erection, but not all of the time. And it was relatively cool and cold for like a week unless I kept pumping blood into it.

It is getting better now that I’m jelqing and kegeling, but I think I will still go to the doctor, I really think I may have hurt my CS.

Later bro keep me posted on anything.

I have this very problem and I think I caused it by squeezing an erection a year ago. Almost exact same “symptoms” as Yataghan has. I am trying to get my urologist to perform a spongiosography on me.

To people who don’t have this condition: it is almost insulting to insinuate that we have been “spoiled” by cock rings or whatnot. My glans was super-hard and engorged before I had this condition, now I can feel blood gushing out of the head if I don’t grip the penis to prevent outflow.

Yataghan I have the same problem,so I just want to say to you DO PE!Do everything you can for at least a year and then think about surgery.PE is nothing compare to that.I am so happy I found this site and I do believe this is one way to fix that glans problem and have a bigger penis.Live healthy life,eat healthy,think positive things,try all that and PE for one year.I will try to do that.I do believe it is the right way.Sorry for my bad English.Best luck to all you PE-rs

Thought I’d visit this site again. I no longer have this problem, it was corrected surgically. Sounds drastic, but it really basically was just a tiny nick and they were able to kill the vein which was causing the problem - no side effects at all.

About the issue itself, like some others have said penis heads are meant to be softer then the shaft, that is normal. However, you will definently know if you have this problem. For me, I could not even kegel and make my head expand previously -it almost felt like it was disconnected from my dick. And it remained very small, and ‘lifeless’ when hard. Now, I can tell it is normal since it is a lot bigger, remains full and feels great - unlike before. If you start having this problem I would advise to stop PE immediately, and see if it gets better. If not, I have read some people claim that PE has improved things for them. Personally, I feel they may not have had what we have in the first place … because I know PE could never have fixed what I had. And it seems for many to cause this shit in the first place. But, everyone is different so it may have some merit - but I am very doubtful.

If the problem is a leaking vein, which is easy to isolate, the surgery I had is always a viable option to this problem. Whatever you guys do, good luck and all the best

Nice that this ended happily.

Just a question Yataghan50; How did they discovered the vein who was blocking?

I had never seen this thread before now, but I’ve had this exact same problem since adolescence. I’m also curious to know how they isolated the leaky vein, and why removing it helped.