Cock head doesn't proprly retain blood - UNITE

Everyone with this problem PLEASE post here.

Though there are a few threads on this, I wanted to make this one a be all and end all one where those with the same problem can share support and advice. This problem really affects me. It is the same old story I’ve read on here a few times, I can kegel blood into my penis or hold the base and the head stays engorged for a few seconds.but then it severely deflates. When I wear a cock ring it stays full and ‘normal’ and the size is fine - I want it to be like this all the time. Also, when wearing the cock ring if I start to masturbate from a complete floppy I feel myself kegel blood in, and feel it stay in. If I start without the ring in the same fashion, I cannot even attain an erection with one hand - the head stays to small to masturbate, and the blood I think comes out. I need two hands, one to tightly hold the base.

I desperately want this treated. From reading so far it seems apparent that kegels, maybe jelqs and also possibly pumping can help this problem.

What experiences have others had? Who has seen a urologist directly about this? I am going to make an appointment, get a Doppler and see what the deal is. I will report back when this is done. But for now, if you experience this, let yourself be known. Let’s help each other out and hopefully one day we can all get past this problem

Did this issue exist before PE? If not, did PE worsen or help it?

I don’t want to derail your thread, but that seems like an important question to ask in the “soft head” investigation, just to make sure everyone is on the same page.

Cdr.Blop

Before P.E. I am guessing it happened from masturbation as a child. I can’t say if P.E has worsened or helped it since I only have been for a couple of days.and I really only focus on kegels, I’m not too interested in size.

Wonder what the natural purpose of the glans is? Also wonder if a lot of this “soft glans” is a result of guys just getting acquainted with their dicks.

Thunder,
It is there to remove any previous lovers sperm so the Alpha male wins.(:

I’m thinking more like a funnel for those hard to open crevices. Something softer and more giving that the main unit.

I have the same problem. It happened to me when I was 16, I used to get these really painful long erections. I used to squeeze them really hard. Well one day too hard, ever since then, it’s been hard to keep the head big. Veine leakage is what I think it is. Never been able to fix the issue, though of the years it’s gotten a little better.

^ Looking back and thinking about my past, I think mine may be from squeezing too.

When I was very young, young as 6 or 7 I used to masturbate to orgasm by squeezing my flaccid penis between my legs. I always had these dry orgasms until I hit puberty and started ejaculating and getting erections at like 12 or 13. Sadly, at this time I had no idea what I was doing could possibly cause harm. So, I would still try and do this technique which gave me great pleasure, the erection being a hindrance I tried to get rid of. At around 12 I discovered what the penis was for, discovered conventional masturbation and taught myself to do it this way with an erection. However, I think the damage had already been done in the period I would try to orgasm flaccid, like I had been doing for years, while my erection was trying to go up.

I guess I consider myself lucky that I can get a raging erection with a cock ring, because looking back I think I could have really damaged the tissues and not be able to get hard at all.

I don’t really have anything new to add beyond what I’ve already said - I used to get this, but it corrected itself when I cut down on the smoking. I know it won’t be as simple as that for everyone, but I do think it’s got more to do with poor circulation than any lasting damage people may or may not have done to the old fella.

Hi,my dorsal superficial vein is engorged ,like a varicose vein.

When I press the vein ,my glans is filling with blood.

I think I suffer from venous leakage and mondors.

^ I don’t know what vein it is, but for me on the top of my penis there is a very prominent.’ridge’ that is about 2 inches long, that I think it may be a main vein or something? When I push down on it it feels somewhat like a skinny plastic tube or something.Anyway I think this may be the root of my problem, for when I push down on this ‘tube’ the head stays engorged, otherwise it does not.

Sounds like you need to find a very competent urologist and go for a consult.

This is not something that can be solved here.

It very well may be some repair is possible to fix it.

@Yataghan,yes it´s the vein I mean,mine is very thick too!

Interesting! I guess mine is quite thick too, for a vein anyway. I wonder if the problem is Mondors instead of a venous leak? I guess this is very wishful thinking.I have done some research and haven’t found any cases where Mondor’s has caused erection problems, but who knows? Definitely going to see a urologist soon. Even if I do have a leak (Which I’m near certain of) maybe if I fix this mondors, my situation will improve.

When I was younger, throughout my entire childhood, I would have a “pee pee contest”, dont ask me where the name came from, as I was probably 6 around that time. I would just push down at the base and it would bring me to an orgasm I guess. I can still do it now only difference is I ejaculate.