Hey Buddies,
I started PE on the old board and was one of only a few when Thunder began. Started at 5.5 X 4.8 and am currently just under 7 X 5.2. Nothing spectacular but I am happy. I am poster boy for hard gainers. I started with jelks. bends, Uli’s, some pumping and then went to the hanger which did the most for lengthening—thanks Bib. I do all of the above occasionally, but currently do manual stretching using a bolted together tripod wood thing which I squeeze and stretch at the base followed by the pad lock hang thing all while in the hot tub every morning for about 45 minutes. I definitely have seen great flacid gains. Heat, stretch, simple pad lock hang to seal gains, lots of years and consistency pays off slow but sure. I was the original post on the thrombosed vein, so I am a cautious PE’r and recommend that to all. I also started a weight lifting and diet program at the same time—Success.
I have a story for all of you. Outsiders probably see my wife and I as hip, good looking, smart and talented, however, sadly, my wife is one of those many women who have lost their libido for the past 4 or so years and is currently going through what I guess to be her menopause (she doesn’t do or discuss sex or anything for that matter). Interesting what a great lay she was in the beginning and how it virtually disappeared after kids. I know I am not alone on this one. Yes I have tried everything ie, counselling, and all the other love language strategies. Todays mothers are busy and forsake all others (mainly their husbands) for their kids, societal appearances, houses, and girl friend Zoloft queens—check please!
PE can raise testosterone and dopamine levels. It may bring about an imbalance in all of your neurotransmitters. Hense, you get real horny. Her constant rejections eventually became anger, resentment, rage, and distance for the years of neglect which has me out of the bedroom for 3 years now—lonely territory. This is the curse of the American woman. It is tough PE’ing without any hope for sex and locked into a sexless marriage with two great kids and a wife who is fridged. Well, my dog doesn’t bite, so I make the best of it.
Lud has great advise about building and keeping relationships—listen to him. PE’rs, make sure you scope out a wife/girl who is open to sex and not just manipulating for a marriage/relationship for society, house, appearance, kids, etc. reasons.