Completely ridiculous erection problem

My girlfriend of 3 years is looking better than she ever has before. 36C, big ass, great face. We were at it tonight, I was feeling her up and getting her wet. I was very hard for a while.

Then, things made a turn for the worse. I lost my erection, and she was jerking and sucking me to get it back. She was getting frustrated and felt bad, thinking it was her fault. The night ended when we heard someone walking around upstairs and she got too worried to continue. Neither of us were satisfied.

I have not jerked or had sex in about 3 days. I have been taking lecithin and l-arginine supplements, and some vitamin e and horny goat weed tonight! At age 20, I should absolutely no problem keeping an erection, especially with a voluptuous naked girl by my side. I don’t understand at all.

I have been doing a few PE exercises here and there when I have time. I worked for a few hours today (cutting lawns) which was tiring, and also played a hockey game late tonight which drained a lot of my energy. These could be possible reasons, but I feel I have no one to blame but myself.

Any ideas what it could be or what I should do?

You probably got too anxious.. maybe you thought “Man, I CANNOT LOSE MY ERECTION WITH HER NOW” and then you got afraid to lose it and then you lost it. :)

Obviously it’s not a biological issue and my best advice is to do not let this episode come to your thoughts when you’re playing with your girl again. Sex, and this is my opinion, is no big deal. :P
You shouldn’t be (if you were) THAT worried about satisfying or having a miraculous performance.. just do it, have fun, enjoy, this is a relaxing mind thing, not the opposite. ;)

Wish you luck next time :)

Just stay relaxed. Don’t even think about it, just attack it.

How much arginine do you take?

Why do you take lecithin?

Sounds like you were to tired.

Here’s a different opinion. You say you have been dating her for 3 years right? Well in my own personal experiences, after dating the same girl for a long time (especially if you have sex often) the sexual excitement can be nullified. I have actually lost a couple erections during sex and I’m only 19, but that was only with girls that I had sex with numerous times before (like 30 or 40 plus times). It has only happened twice and I don’t really sweat it because I know that it’s rare and by the time I’ve had sex with the girl enough to lose some interest, I know her well enough for it not to be weird or devastating. By my theory your fine. Even Jordan had off nights.

You mowed lawns all day and played hockey - you were tired, end of story.

Don’t do that.

Switch to doing stuff that gets you turned on from a psychological perspective rather than a physiological one. After many hours of sex my wood will sometimes go away if i am receiving oral and she is less than freaky skilled. If I switch to kissing, playing with her breasts, and going down on her I can get it back every time.

Happens to everybody once and a while. There are several things that could have caused it, but trust me it happens. Don’t let it get you down, just make sure she knows that it is not because of her, it is just a guy thing.

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It’s the penis wisdom man, you have a psychological problem man, maybe you will never know what it is and maybe you do know.

Exactly. It’s not like it’s ED or anything, if you’re a guy with a sex life you will experience a few of these, not a big deal.

Just tell her she’s fat and ugly and if she could suck dick a little better, things would be OK.

I like it..

MAN LAW…

Viagra.