Cum quick

I’m having a Little problem,once my dick enters my girls pussy it’s like ten seconds and I’m cumming,but when I masturbate I can go for it seems like one hour if I want,does anyone else have this trouble or can I get some advice as to last longer during sex?any help would be appreciated.

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Also have you tried desensitising condoms?

It’s always been my experience that the condom itself was desensitizing enough.Dam I hate those things .

Doesn’t sound like such a problem to me… at least you have a pussy for your dick to enter.

If only I had such problems.

My Advice - what works for me, is to think of how your house plumbing works, think about all the joints, whether soldered, or crimped, threaded etc.. Think of what the pipe size from the sink is, the DWV (Drain Waste Vent System). Why does a toilet need a 3” drain, and does not need a drain trap..

Get it? Bore the crap out of yourself and maybe you’ll forget you’re having sex. Take your mind off the pleasure for the moment.

Joe

That defeats the point in having sex in the first place though! As soon as you start thinking about what you’re really doing again, you’re going to have the problem.

I dont know about you, but I dont want to be thinking about toilet drainage systems while I’m having sex…

Think of something else. Focus your mind in other things around you but not to the point your losing your erection. May be your girl has a very tight pussy that’s why you cum easily. Practice kegels, it will help you a lot. Have a nice sex!

If you are a young guy, and having fairly infrequent sex, try jacking off sometime before the main event to take the edge off. I would also say to try not to anticipate things too much, i.e. don’t sit around all day fantasizing extensively about how you are about to have sex. You can get yourself overexcited which will lead to premature ejaculation. I know we all think about sex many times a day, but don’t just sit there staring off into the distance in a detailed fantasy. It’s fun, but in these cases it can be too much. At that point do something to take your mind off of things.

During the main event, it is tough to keep the right balance. I really don’t like the idea of trying to think of something entirely different, I think it takes away from the enjoyment. Premature ejaculation comes from over-excitement, over stimulation. Try this: instead of being a giggly schoolboy, thinking to yourself “My God, I’m actually having SEX!!!”, try to develop a more self confident inner voice…like “yeah, baby, how do you like THAT! Who’s your Daddy?” Concentrate not on how it feels for you, but what you are doing for your partner. Disconnect yourself from the sensations on your dick, work to convince yourself that they are not that important at the moment. Do anything you can to lower the importance you attach to having your dick in a girl.

In sex, there is a time to give pleasure, and a time to receive pleasure. My motto is “Ladies First”, mainly because I know I am a selfish bastard and my interest in doing anything for her goes down dramatically after I cum, at least for 30 minutes or so. Sad but true. If we work it into some simultaneous thing, great.

I’ve just a thought here. I read that performance anxiety actually can make you cum quicker. I guess this makes sense. If our ancestors sensed danger in the middle of coitus, then I bet their natural instinct was to hurry it up :rofl: ! Maybe you are already anxious that you will cum too soon, and it is becoming self-reinforcing. Just something to think about.

Have another condom ready near by, when you cum, throw the used one on the floor real quick, put on the new one as fast as you can, and continue to go at it. I don’t know about yall, but sometimes it works for me. When it does work, I always make my girl cum.

Post number 10 2nd paragraph from halfrusski.. That is actually very much true and I just found out that unintentionally I have been doing that thing for a few years and it does work. This is not bragging but I can have sex up to around 90 minutes if I want to then even longer.
The point is that if you get a little aggressive and start hitting it hard then in about a few seconds you will feel like if you are not even sticking your dick in a pussy once she is aroused a lot. The last girl I have been having has quite a tight pussy and when she is about to cum she keeps contracting them muscles and at that point I really need to be doing what halfrusski was talking about. If not I might cum like 5 seconds before she does and that is even worse then if she had no pleasure at all. Because she feels it coming and then nothing.

And if you like the earlier advice about thinking about something else then sex then thinking about money in a way that you thing that you have to pay that to that guy or you have to pay that bill seems to work just perfectly. Just don’t get into that thinking too deep otherwise you will loose that hard on :o )

Might want to invest in a cock ring if you’re planning on multiple rounds. I know I can only go so many times in a row before I’m spent. However, since I’ve been using a condom, I’ve found this to be a non-issue.

I concur, think of something else if you feel your brewing one up.