Edging

Can someone explain edging? I tried a search but can’t seem to find the technique outlined or something. :)

Thanks in advance

Edging is masturbating up to the brink of orgasm, but then stopping and not cumming. This can be repeated over and over again.

Whats the point

Extended pleasure. Try it.

Takes a while to master, but once you get good at it you can maintain a constant level or arousal that is just below orgasm that is unlike anything you have ever experienced before.

Yah you can last longer plus you can shoot like crazy! And when you shoot it’s gonna be the greatest feeling in the world.

Edging with a cock ring is good too! Try that as well!

I’ve been trying edging since about a week ago, but damn, does it take some willpower. To learn exactly where the “point of no return” is for you, and to stop just before that without going over, takes quite a lot of time and effort. There are times when I have felt disheartened, because I’ve been thinking “I can do just a little bit more”, and then I find that it’s too much and I shoot.

It will be difficult in the beginning (as I am finding out myself) but try not to lose hope, like I started to do before I said to myself “think about the benifits if you continue to work at this and master it eventually”.

Personally speaking, I need to learn to trust and control myself more when that first gut-instinct feeling tells me to stop. I’m going to try something next time I try edging, and that is that instead of trying to take myself to the brink and stop, I’m going to stop when I feel the first twinge of orgasm coming on, and then leave everything alone until the next time I edge, when I’m going to take it a bit further, and I’ll continue that way for a bit and see where that gets me. I’m thinking that this method will gradually teach me self-trust and self-control without forcing myself to immediately do it (as I have been doing with my current method).

Are there any thoughts on my current or proposed methods? Does anybody else have any techniques or patterns of thought that they have used (either unsuccessfully or successfully) to learn and master edging? It would be useful to know them, since others could try using those thoughts or techniques and see what works for them and what doesn’t.

I might say I’m an experienced edger because I know the exact point of “no return” so I stop right before this point. There’s a method that works really well for me because I’m uncut. When I’m starting to reach the point of no return I just pull my foresking over my glands. It’s a rather awkward feeling, like I feel the sperm speeding towards my glands but then after pulling my foreskin forward I feel the sperm go back again and away from my glands. If I wouldn’t pull my foreskin forward I would explode all over the room.

Ash, as for your new technique you’re gonna try, I’ve been doing that too. But I have a question. Do you speak in days, like your edging 1 day and then again the day after that or something? Or do you mean you’re gonna edge a couple of hours later again and cum? Because I found out that when I didn’t cum and I went on for a couple of days I would eventually have a wet dream because my dick would seem so “full” of it that it just couldn’t take more. It was a little weird as I’m way past the point of having wet dreams. You can always give it a shot if you don’t care about the cum all over your pants. I care because my mom does my laundry :p

Hi Flyreg: Let me this question coming from the Spanish side:

Your way of edging seems rather strange to me (however, since it is useful for you, that’s all-right). While you pull your foreskin over your glans, do you make a strong kegel too? Do you really feel the cum going back? Most important of all: don’t you loose your hardon??

Good edging guy,

Fefo.

Fefo, yah maybe it is kinda strange. Maybe I’m the only one who get’s less aroused when I pull my foreskin over my glands. I wouldn’t know. That’s why I posted it to let other people experience it and maybe it works for them too. Have you tried it yet? I really push my foreskin hard over my glands, not just a little or it wouldn’t work.

What’s maybe a little more strange is the fact that I absolutely don’t do a kegel when I feel the urge of cumming. As a matter of fact, if I would do a kegel I would cum, like I’m pushing the sperm towards my glands again. It’s like a reversed kegel when you take a piss and push the last drips of urine out.

And yah I really feel the cum going back. I feel lesser and lesser aroused but I’m only talking about a couple of seconds. I just pull my foreskin over my glands for a couple of seconds untill the urge of cumming goes away. And I don’t lose my hardon in a couple of seconds, uhm well maybe 5% of it but it goes back up again in no time. But when I start to masturbate again I get faster to that point of “no return” so to speak.

But mastering this technique can be good when you masturbate, but during intercourse, stopping penetration can be frustrating for your woman I guess…

I think not. You can always do some other things like make out or touch some “special” spots. I don’t think a woman always needs to be penetrated constantly. My experience tells me that you have to penetrate in certain rythms: slow, medium, fast, and faster than a drill machine. A woman likes the variation, it’s gonna get a little boring when you’re constantly penetrating at the same rythm for 20 minutes or so. And besides, you only have to stop penetration for about half a minute…

Thanks for the information, flygreg! I’m usually pretty horny, so I don’t leave it for days - I just can’t take a long wait! I usually try and edge twice a day, morning and evening - sometimes more if I’m feeling like I need more, but usually twice a day.

OK, I think I’m starting to get this edging thing. I tried it this morning at about 2 a.m. just before going to bed. I masturbated for half an hour, and miraculously, I managed to stop right before the ‘point of no return’. I felt one strong twinge in my penis head, and then closed my eyes and concentrated on the sensations while also concentrating on holding back my BC muscle from contracting. I felt really full up at the base of my cock - full up with semen that wasn’t going to go anywhere. I felt like I needed to urinate.

Having felt horny all day today due to the events of this morning (and the confidence it has given me that maybe I can indeed do this), I edged again just now for 30 minutes, and I feel even more full than I did last night. The feeling of wanting to urinate has also returned. I honestly feel like I’m going to burst if I keep this up!!

Some questions:
- Am I doing this correctly? Is what I’m going through normal? Are the sensations I’m feeling normal ones that would usually be felt when edging?
- Will urinating ease the full up feeling? Will I lose the accumulated semen at the base of my cock if I urinate?
- What results can I expect from edging? What benefits are there?

Thanks for helping me. I really don’t know what to make of this new development, as you probably can tell, and I hope you’ll be able to help me make more sense of this current situation that I really haven’t been in before.

I recently started to practice this as well. It does indeed take a lot of willpower :D